I got it back together and works fine...no more leaks. I will mention a couple of things. The original wiper Volvo used is not an actual wiper, it is just a rod seal installed backwards. Metric Seals had these in 16 x 24 x 4. Part # was WAO-16. SKF makes a double lip oil seal that would work as well. It is part # 6287. It is 16 x 24 x 5 so it is 1mm wider, but does not hurt anything as there is nothing for it to interfere with on the outside. I got the polyurethane rod seal (UHS16-E9625) from metric seals.
One other item of note, I could not get the toothpick method to work installing the seal. What I ended up doing was using a 5/8" wooden dowel and sliding it in the piston side until the end was flush with the bottom of the seal groove. This kept the seal from sliding or popping down the shaft. It didn't leave any room for it to go anywhere but into the groove. I still used some fishing line to make a figure 8, but once I had that done, I could bend the seal over into a "C" (like explained in the toothpick method) by hand and put it into the end of the actuator. The dowel kept it located in the hole and it slid into the groove. Once I cut the line, it expanded and I was able to finish pushing it into the groove. I probably struggled for 20 minutes with the toothpick. Took me 2 tries with using the dowel and had it installed in about 3 minutes.
Anyway, thanks for the assistance and maybe this will help others with the same issue.
-Keith