Re: Jerks! Why so many jerks?
Let's put this into perspective. This morning I had the secretary of the synagogue I belong to send out the following letter: Read that and tell me again how terrible it is to have a skint up boat and how bad the horse's patootie is who did the damage. I guarantee I'd trade the ailments I've got for a damaged boat in a New York minute.
From: Mel Taylor
To: XXXXXXXXXXXXXXXX
Sent: Friday, July 26, 2013 9:31:07 AM
Subject: Message from Mel Taylor
Gentlepersons,
Some weeks it just don't pay to get out of bed!
For quite a while now I've known that I wasn't very well physically but haven't known exactly what the problem was or just what was going on in my body. Now I know. I spent the afternoon and evening of the 24th of July in the hospital having tests, including a CT scan and now it is official and what I've suspected for quite a while is confirmed. I have stage four lung cancer, metastasized and apparently terminal.
Without going into a lot of detail, in laymen's terms, I've got tumors various places outside of my lung (such as my liver) and my right lung is virtually non-functional due to a buildup of air or gas and fluid between the pleura and the lung itself (I believe it's called a hydropneumothorax). If anyone is really interested in the gory details I can send you the results of the CT scan via e-mail.
The immediate need is to get the fluid and gas away from the lung so I can breathe easier. From then on it's just whatever can be done to keep me comfortable (such as my wife catering to my every whim?) until the end.
Because I have been taking blood thinners they are going to wait until Tuesday the 30th to drain the fluid off the lung. I'll be readmitted to the hospital then but don't know whether I'll have to stay overnight or not. I don't yet have any idea of projected life span. Hopefully someone will be able to give me some kind of estimate of that on Tuesday.
Anyhow, right now I'm doing fine, I'm still up and active, not depressed, or even stressed much now that I know what is going on but Dia and I do have an awful lot of stuff, legal and otherwise, to take care of and get squared away in the next few weeks. Assuming, of course, that I still have a few weeks left. Only God knows the answer to that question. In any case, your prayers and kind thoughts will be appreciated.
Love to all y'all,
Mel