Yea... hes only seven so this was his first year of kids pitching... he did pretty well. The area we are in had two 7U teams go to the all stars tournament and he made the B team but they didnt have too much luck... he still had a blast tho which at this point is all I care about... I couldnt believe how serious some of the parents were, practically getting in fist fights over 7 year olds, but I guess I have many years of that to look forward to.
yeah, I don't have a hard time believe that at ALL. I've been around this for 13 years now. You didn't ask for this, but I'm going to give you some fatherly advise:
* your job as a Dad is to help your son on his baseball journey. It can be a hell of a great ride, and will be a source of some really fun times between the two of you.
* Ask your son more questions about his baseball experience than you offer advise. Encourage him to take ownership of everything that he does...including managing his equipment and understanding his place and role on the team.
* Encourage your son to understand that baseball isn't fair, so expecting it to be fair is therefore unfair.
The best kids don't always get to play. The best thing he can do is contribute to his team no matter what. Many kids (especially younger ones) hate to sit in the dugout (meaning they're not playing). Coaches will take note of kids who can handle not being in the game and yet are still engaged in the game with their teammates.
*avoid the parent drama. Find a nice quiet place down the foul line to set up your seat and enjoy watching the game and your son.
*don't coach through the fence.
* never speak negatively about the coach to your son/player...even if he's a giant idiot. Your son will take his ques from you and respecting the coach has to be a foundational concept.
* baseball is a great life teacher because it will teach these two things: 1. how to deal with failure (it's a game of failure) and turn it into positive motivation and 2. How manage delayed gratification. The baseball journey is a marathon not a sprint race and in the end it rewards those how learn how to "Work while you wait" and enjoy the grind.
Unfortunately, Baseball is a game for summer, and that cuts into our lake opportunities. Maybe baseball will be your son's passion, maybe it won't. I just booked a hotel room back in Palm Beach for the USA Baseball Eastern 16U Championship. The finish line is nearly in site for me now, and I know that I'll be sitting around thinking back fondly on the crazy summer days of having to plan back to back to back out of town tournaments.
Best of luck to both of you! BTW, things start to really get interesting first at 9U - the start of kid pitching, and then the next year or two after when you have to decide if/when to get on a tournament/travel team, then again at 13u when they move to the 60/90 baseball field.