cheburashka
Senior Chief Petty Officer
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Re: Who decided that fighting is bad?
Now what's that supposed to mean? You're not surprised that I'd take the same stance I took last time this came up in this forum? Am I being bullied here?
Back to the original question, bullying needs to be stopped because no matter how well you train YOUR kid to fight, someone else's kid will end up being the next victim. Bullies are very competent at finding the weakest and most defenseless kids, and they know exactly how to hurt them the most. They'll find a kid with a disability, or a kid who's small and weak, or they'll find another way to stack the odds in their favor. Also, there will come a time in everyone's life when they will need to learn to deal with bullies without fighting them.
My father was a bully toward his kids. His father was the same. When the odds are that stacked against you in a fight, you learn better ways to stay out of trouble than trying to take on the bully who has deliberately chosen a fight he knows he can win. Many bosses are bullies. Many teachers too. In cases like that you can't force a physical altercation and you need the mental skills to deal with it.
"Whining about it"? Nah. Just suggesting what I think is a better way to deal with it than fighting fire with fire.
Cheb> somehow, I'm not surprised about your comment.
Now what's that supposed to mean? You're not surprised that I'd take the same stance I took last time this came up in this forum? Am I being bullied here?
Back to the original question, bullying needs to be stopped because no matter how well you train YOUR kid to fight, someone else's kid will end up being the next victim. Bullies are very competent at finding the weakest and most defenseless kids, and they know exactly how to hurt them the most. They'll find a kid with a disability, or a kid who's small and weak, or they'll find another way to stack the odds in their favor. Also, there will come a time in everyone's life when they will need to learn to deal with bullies without fighting them.
My father was a bully toward his kids. His father was the same. When the odds are that stacked against you in a fight, you learn better ways to stay out of trouble than trying to take on the bully who has deliberately chosen a fight he knows he can win. Many bosses are bullies. Many teachers too. In cases like that you can't force a physical altercation and you need the mental skills to deal with it.
"Whining about it"? Nah. Just suggesting what I think is a better way to deal with it than fighting fire with fire.