I do industrial maintenance for a living so i understand the idea of "too much is worse than not enough."
But the purpose of bearing buddies is to maintain continual positive pressure to prevent water intrusion. The the inside bearing gets the overflow from the outer bearing. The same idea can be achieved by giving it a shot of grease once every time you use it, but would be a pita to do every time and would actually be too much by the 3rd time you did it.
You know if your overgreasing if your hubs get so hot you cant touch them after pulling full speed for a length of time. Some of these guys say they dont touch their hubs but once every 5 years, thats good enough for me. But if i go through the trouble of opening the hub up, id just as soon replace the bearings and races if im that far in anyways.
I dont have bearing buddies on mine but i know many who do, and the fact they have a spring loaded "pressure Take-up" if you will, theoretically should prevent greasing to the point of seal damage so long as you dont grease till the spring is at max compression.
Its a horse-a-piece really, as long as the internal surfaces are completely coated in petroleum grease, which is naturally hydrophobic, you shouldnt have an issue. keep in mind the only reason they need grease at all is they are occasionally submerged. so a shot here or there should do it fine, but once that seal is out, water gets in and eventually scrubs the grease away. a person should be fully aware the bearings are out when you see the wheel wobble.