Re: (UPDATE)dateing friends sisters, can it be done?
She is older then the brother by about a year and a half.<br /><br />Its kind of a screwy situation.<br /><br />When I first started hanging around with the brother, she really liked me. Of coarse I didn't know this at the time, but she would like tease her brother about how she wanted to hang out with me and to "bring ryan over" ect ..ect maybe she did like me, but I think a lot of it might have been to annoy him. <br /><br />One of the first times I ever talked to her, maybe around christmas she wanted to give me a ride home from school. She was a senior and the brother and I where sophomores. I would have been in her car with both of them, and I could tell it bothered my friend, so I didn't show up. Apparently, she still kept talking about me after that, unknown to me. Back then the brother and I weren't as close as we are now, so he didn't tell me any of this until just recently.<br /><br />After she kept asking about me, he finally had enough. She's VERY inti-racest, so the brother starts telling her I'm a raciest, I hate this I hate that and I'm a big bad raciest. She buys it and go's from liking me, to hating my guts. This was when I was still in school and would see her around, after a few scenes in the hall, making me look like a complete jerk off, with this crazy girl calling me names, and me trying to calm her down, I decided to stay the hell away from her.<br /><br />I stayed away for the last month of school, didn't talk to her at all, even took different routes in the hall to avoid seeing her. While this was going on, I'd gotten to be very close friends with her brother. Now that I've been over the house and stuff a lot, I know the whole family, the parents love me. So I called the daughter one day a few weeks ago to apologize and explain what happened, and how I'm not really raciest. I think it was a lot for her to take in. She didn't have much to say, and that's been the end of of.<br /><br />Since our phone call I've seen her around and been friendly, but haven't really gone out of my way for her, but we are on good teams, and I really do like her. Now she's left the country for a month, and I'm finding that I actually miss seeing her. So I'm thinking about asking her out when she gets back. I think when the brother sees that I'm attracted to her, and she's not just going after me to **** him off, he should be okay with it.<br />From what I know about her, she's kind of a nut, she showed me that by throwing fits when passing me in the hall at school. She is also unpredictable. These are the things the worry me about getting involved with her. Her brother and parents aren't like this. She kind of seems to be the bad girl in the family.<br /><br />So now that you guys know the whole story, is it too dangerous?
<br /><br />Have you ever dated or gotten involved with a good friends (could be considered my best friend) sister, and kept the same relationship with your friend?<br /><br />Can it be done, or is it just looking for trouble?
