SS MAYFLOAT
Admiral
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- May 17, 2001
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Back in September I posted a thread about my POS wannabe SIL and I getting into a big ruckus. Things have been good since then. He hadn't made any attempts to talk to me except through my wife. Which I feel that being a man, I wouldn't accept anything he had to say through her. If he had something to say to me, then he should have talked to me directly.<br /><br />Well this morning, the morning of a big ice storm he calls me on my cell. Asked if I was busy. I said yes and really didn't have the time to discuss things with him. As a matter of fact I was pulling a tree out of the truckers entrance way of one of our stores. <br /><br />Regauardless if I was busy or not, he continued to ask what it was going to take to make things right between us. I honestly told him the right thing is to stay away. Explained to him his ability to forgive and forget needs to be improved. I didn't appreaciate sarcasim, cut down remarks, and lack of respect for the people who helped with rent, car payments/repairs, and utilities. Told him that he never payed attention to anyones needs unless it benefitted him.<br /><br />Mentioned to him his first mistake was calling me during my working hours. (again he doesn't care about others priorities) Second, he still blamed me for everything. This is the guy that started this because he used my truck in a manner that I specified for it NOT TO BE USED. That is why he pulled the hitch off my truck.<br /><br />So I told him that my wife and I can't trust you and don't wish to have you in any of our family functions. The sad thing is my stepdaughter hasn't spoken to her mom and hasn't made any attempt to. My wife did try to meet her somewhere, but the daughter backed out. The daugher doesn't want to see us because we don't want her boyfriend to be around.<br /><br />My wife and I feel the same way, we just don't like him and his disrespectful ways. We are at the age that all of our children have been raised and out of the house. This is our turn to enjoy life without grief. She and I don't fight, and I mean we don't fight at all. <br /><br />I guess I just want some confirmation on if I'm right by sticking to my guns by wanting him out of our lives.