I'll throw this out there and see if you all have any bright ideas.<br /><br />My oldest son, 16, a junior in HS, brought home his worst report card yet. 2 F's and a D, one A and 2 B's.<br /><br />His classwork is always spotty, and his grades suffer because of it.<br /><br />He is very bright. On Monday he received his SAT scores, and they were in the 98th percentile in Reading and Writing and the 96th percentile in Math. Then a few days later, he brings home the F's!!
<br /><br />Last year he got straight D's in Trig and got an A on the final exam. Frustrating ain't it?<br /><br />I have tried to give him things to do to challenge him: He is a voracious reader, and I try to keep him supplied with books; I arranged to have him participate in a DARPA conference with a bunch of Phd's and he held his own; we took the USCG Aux Basic Boating and Seamanship course together and the rat got a higher score than I did; and he has done 4H.<br /><br />What can I do to get him to understand that test scores do not amount to anything when applying for college? Sure, they're great, but they want to see performance at the admissions office.<br /><br />His computer is shut down for the rest of the school year, and he does accept that, though he doesn't like it. What's next? Beatings?<br /><br />He is young for his age. He has his learner's permit but so far has exhibited little inclination to drive, so I can't use that approach.<br /><br />He is a good kid and I have seen no evidence of drugs or bad behaviors. He runs with good kids and is very interested in playing Basketball, something that would be a good indicator if he were starting bad behaviors.<br /><br />I suspect that he just hates the busywork part of school, so he gets all self-righteous and doesn't do the work. <br /><br />Thanks for listening. It is a frustrating thing.