JB
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In 1955 I met a girl who was dating my best friend. That was in Hawaii.<br /><br />The three of us went out together for a few weeks. One night Hal had the duty, so Elizabeth and I went to a movie. We admitted to one another an irresistable attraction.<br /><br />50 years ago this Saturday we were married. Hal was best man.<br /><br />27 years, 4 children and a grandson later we divorced. Not a story worth telling today.<br /><br />Elizabeth remarried a couple of years later. She was widowed 3 years ago after about 18 years married to Bill.<br /><br />I got involved with a few women over the years. They all sent me packing, telling me that I was still "married" to Elizabeth.<br /><br />We have remained friends and go out together now and then, as well as gathering with our descendants (now up to 8 grandchildren and a great grandson) regularly.<br /><br />My feelings for her are tender and nostalgic, but not what I would call romantic. At our age romance doesn't seem important anymore.<br /><br />Now to my question. We are going out to dinner saturday. For me it is the golden anniversary of the most important day of my life. <br /><br />Should I send/bring flowers? What about a gift? What sort of gift?