Hi Scott. I really appreciate your thoughts. I did get some idea as to appropriate hull flex from Crestliner. I spoke with the technical department, was actually put through 3 people before I got someone with knowledge.
He agreed that the smartest way to measure flex was where I had indicated, as this is also the widest/deepest point in the hull, and located away from cross braces. Both torsional and longitudinal flex would be observable there. There are no real specifications for this, but anywhere from 0 to up to an inch would not raise any alarms in his mind, although he said most boats would be pretty close to zero. If I get an inch of flex there it's time to park it.
Although what I learned on the phone (and from this forum) made good sense to me, and assured me that I was not running a death trap, I will still take this advice with a grain of salt. Hull flex may not be my big problem. The stringer condition and my front engine mount could be an issue, perhaps the drive will pull straight out at the front? Perhaps the outdrive will start to pull through the transom and bring in water? Perhaps all of the above?
I think your 12 step list is funny and clever. I am currently awaiting step 8 (I think), but there is a difference between denial and careful assessment.
At this stage in the game I can say that the advice offered here on this forum is fantastic, and you folks have proven to be correct all along the way. I have no doubt that this will prove to be the case going forward. I don't want so seem like I am not taking your advice - because I absolutely am. Without all of this information I wouldn't even know what to look for let alone how to deal with it. I agree that my boat needs a compete resto. She is rotten and I know it.
If my reality is that I have to pull the boat until winter, then so be it. But I won't be able to touch it until February. It would seem a shame to pull it now and find out then that it wasn't as bad as I thought and I could have run it all year.
My intentions are to pay very close attention to everything, with the idea in mind that I am driving a rotten boat. I will inspect, measure drill and double-check incessantly so that I am ever mindful of what is happening. My boating season will be a constant test drive. (sadly, this will also be fun for me).
I will measure my hull. If there is zero or close to zero flex I will feel good, but - I will measure it again in a couple of weeks. I will tap test the hull, because even though it doesn't tell you all is well, it will alert you to delamination and disbonds at key structural areas.
On the list of things to do, I am also going to make an engine mount safety switch. Once I figure out how to do this, I will let you know. Essentially it will cut the engine if the engine mount bolts start to move.
I am also going to install a strong bungee tether that will prevent the engine from popping up and slamming into anything if the mounts let go.
I may or may not make it to the winter without pulling the boat, but if there is an issue I am fairly confident I will see it before it happens. It is all thanks to you guys for being so awesome and helping me to understand how this all works and what to be aware of.
I look forward to yur help as I complete the 12 step process.