Re: Homophobia
Re: Homophobia
Perhaps we have different perceptions of what is a "lifestyle".<br /><br />To me, it includes everything, 24/7/365, that a life includes. Labeling that based on the small portion of a life that is spent in private intimacy seems terribly narrow thinking.<br /><br />Suppose a traditional hetero couple are normally drunk or high, steal or do other illegal activities to support themselves, beat their children, if any, and in general defy all modern morals. Does what they do in bed matter?<br /><br />Suppose another couple of he same gender (I could call them traditional, too. Such partnerships have existed as long as civilization has existed) are both highly educated professionals, active in community affairs, are raising several children from previous partnerships and in general are upstanding members of society. Should what they do in bed matter?<br /><br />I am not directing this at you, QC. This "lifestyle" term, condemning everything about same gender partnerships, pops up regularly and regularly offends me.<br /><br />One of my daughters is in a life partnership with another woman. They have been together for 25 years. Both are professionals and well respected in their community of conservative rural Texans. What they may do in private moments is none of my business and none of anyone elses. I don't know and I don't want to know.<br /><br />I just get tired of the gay bashing and I take it personally.