Was watching some load testing videos the other day and they were using Bersa Thunder 380. Looks like an interesting gun.
I like the longer barrel, almost 4", of the Beretta and Browning and the mid-size frame which I think will fit our hands better which is why those are of my interest.
Also the Beretta has 2 models, the 84 and 85. The 84 is a double stack 13 round and the 85 is a single stack with a little thinner grip. These are also a bit heavier than the compac's most carry so I'm thinking this will also reduce recoil.
Also my thinking is that with a light recoil she will feel more comfortable and confident more quickly and want to shoot more often. Then we can think of moving up to a 9mm with hotter loads.
bonz_d, you hit on a very interesting issue with guns. I have introduced so many folks that were afraid of guns for a lot of reasons. And I started with 22 rim fires guns for their first try. And once then were comfortable shooting the 22 rounds, I went up to some very light loaded (I hand load everything but 22's) 38 special rounds. They seem to enjoy them as well, then on to some standard load 9mm's. And again they like shooting them as well.
That is usually where I stop unless they ask to shoot anything more powerful. But I caution folks to not push the heavier stuff with first time shooters. Let them work into such guns as they gain more confidence in their abilities. And every person I started with like to shoot after my procedure. In fact, they went and bought their own gun(s) and started shooting regularly.
So folks that could be on the edge about guns were introduced to them in a nice controlled fashion and like them so much they are now pro gun folks that shoot regularly. How can you ask for more? :noidea:
Too many times gun folks take they 357 mag or even 44 mag or even 12 gauge 3" rounds or even their 3006 rifle and hand it to non-gun folks and they pull off one round and are finished forever because of a stupid introduction technique. Save the powerful stuff for some other day and go light. It does make a real difference. Dirty Harry techniques is not the way to introduce new folks to the shooting industry. JMHO!