Country Neighbors - Simply WOW

Bubba1235

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Some of you know I've been down with an illness (Shingles) the last 4 or 5 weeks and one of the worst parts is that I can't go out in the sun shine. (Feels like my skin is on fire.)

Living on a farm like I do has always meant the place takes a lot of maintenance and care to keep it all up and I've really fell behind. I normally finish mow 6 acres or so and the grass is way out of control at this point. Lost some tree limbs in the storms we've had this year. Need to blade and level the gravel lane. A few roofing shingles off the house, etc, etc. Nothing major really and I could have it all caught up in a week if I were able to get at it but right now I can't.

So yesterday a neighbor stopped by to see how I was doing and when he seen the "yard" he asked, "What happened, you always keep your place looking like a park"? I explained I could not stand to be in the sun, can't run equipment/tractor while on the meds, etc.

This morning about 9:00 he stopped by again and told me he had called around and Saturday would have 10 or 12 farmers coming over and they were going to spend the day helping out and getting me caught back up and had me tell the wife not to cook a thing, their wives were bringing the food. Told me to make a list of everything that needs done and don?t be shy about it. One of the guys has one of those big canvas shade canopies and is going to set it up so I can come out and join in on the eats and conversation.

There really are some things money can't buy and great neighbors is one of them! I have always helped my neighbors out when I could and it?s good to feel it coming back to me when needed. Not picking on you city folks at all, but this just never seemed to happen when I lived in the city and it makes me glad I made the move back to the country. Yesterday I was moaning and groaning about how lousy the summer has been, this goes a long ways in making it a LOT better and down the road in a few years I?ll probably remember this as the summer all my friends and neighbors made a huge difference.

Heck, I?m feeling better already!!! :D
 

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Thats why I moved to the MS gulf coast. I guess the hurricanes kinda neccitate all of us helpin each other out, but it's nice to hear about the good people in other parts of this great country! Thanks for sharing that story with us. I sincerily hope you get better soon, Bubba!:)
 

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Somebody....answered ;)
 

avenger79

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that was one of the reasons i moved out to where I am now. the few neighbors I have are awesome.
 

angus63

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Outstanding!!
That felt good just reading it!!!!!!:)
 

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Good for you! In my subdivision, folks just look for reasons to complain. I had the cops at my house the other day for parking half way on the friggin sidewalk. Were ready to move to the country!!
 

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Outstanding!!
That felt good just reading it!!!!!!:)

+1, no way you can get through life without alittle help, thank god for friends and neighbours. :)
 

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I'm glad to hear that happens in other places. I'm from a farming community and that is the way it was growing up. However I'm slowly seeing that sort of thing die out, it's sad but true.

I live in a rural small subdivision, everyone helps each other out. If we are on vacation, the neighbors mow the lawn and watch the pets. And we do the same for them.
 

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It's all in the mindset of the individual. I try to always look out for my neighbors. When I first moved to my small subdivision, the roads privately owned. We had a big snow that winter. I plowed half the road and another neighbor plowed half. We both just had garden tractors, but we finished it up at about midnight. The neighbor that had the bobcat would not lift a finger.

When a neighbor is gone for the weekend, I often have my kids carry their garbage cans back up or water their plants, etc.

If we, as human beings, cannot help each other out when needed, then what are we here for?
 

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the 2 i have wont even wave to us
i work all over the us. 2 winters ago i worked in my home town for the first time
rudest folks ive ever met
sorry guys but nicest is south dakota hands down
 

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And that right there Bubba, is what makes life worth living. :)

An elderly couple 3 houses down from us fell on tough times and they lost their home to foreclosure. The entire street pitched in with food, helped sell things and move them out, etc. If they had let us know sooner, we could have given them information about financial aid. As it turned out, the man of the house moved back home to Iowa and put his wife in an assisted living home down here. It was an incredibly sad situation but the neighbors pulled together for them and helped every way they could.

A great family, good neighbors and kind friends are what makes the world go 'round.

I'm glad you are blessed with so much kindness right now.:)
 

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thats awesome! Thats why I'm looking not just for a house, but a good neighborhood to move to.
Oh, and btw, in all my years of travelling all over the US (only missed 9 states) and no offense to anyone, but in Oklahoma(outside OK City), I could even buy a meal, let alone drinks - the folks were amazing!
 

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I've lived in small towns and big cities. I have always said that it doesn't matter where you live the same rule applies. You can have a million dollar house, and if you don't have good neighbors, it's not worth 10 cents.
Bubba, glad you have good folks around you. Here's hoping your back in stride soon.
 

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Bubba, neighbors helping neighbors.....that is what makes this country great. In the country we get away from the socialistic ideology of being micro-managed by the government. We know how to sustain ourselves and join hands when we are not able. Sadly neighbors are being replaced with "big brother"
I feel sorry for your ordeal with the shingles....I have also had them this summer. My first summer at retirement was totally ruined. God, I know what pain your going through. For those that have never had the shingles pray that you don't and GET the VACCINE!!! I have permanent nerve damage from the shingles and can only sleep for 30 minutes at a time before waking from the pain. My prayers are with you.
 

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bubba- this summer will definately be one that you remember. hope you get well soon. just dont let the neighbors know and they will continue to come over and do the work for you.lol.... godspeed to healthiness.
 

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Bubba,
I live in the country (what's left of it) and I can tell you for sure that you must be a well-thought of person. Country folks are what they are, but not for folks that they don't think highly of. It's nice that you have such good neighbors, and that you have obviously been one to them, too. I feel for you-----I'd go crazy not being able to go outside!!!!:(
Get well soon,
JBJ
 

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Bubba,

Glad to hear that your week is looking up. Hope the shingles are not kicking your arse too bad today - I have heard they can be very painful:eek:

As far as good neighbors, that, my friend, money cannot buy and you are a lucky man for their being around when you need them.:)
 

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Bubba I hope you recover soon. I had the shingles when I was 14 for 6 months. For anyone that doesn't know it affects the lymph nodes of the skin at the sides of the abdomen. The skin blisters in a cluster from the hips to below the arms....completely...movement or touch is nearly unbearable. I wore an oversized t-shirt and stayed hunched over so the shirt would not contact the area. The docter told me I was lucky to contract it as a child because its much more serious and painful for an adult.. I think he also said that once you get it and recover your will be imune in the future. ( If I remember incorrectly please dont correct me cause I'd rather believe otherwise).
Your neighbors have certainly helped your condition by relieving some of your stress which for some ( probably me at that time in my life ) is what can cause this condition. Stay upbeat and know that it WILL PASS. Gods speed!
 
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