Nearly every aluminum boat I've dealt with has used soft rivets from the factory. I suppose this is for two reasons, first of is the fact that driving hard rivets would deform the soft aluminum hull, and second for the corrosion factor.
I also figured that they intend for some movement at the rivet during expansion and contraction due to temperature change. If the joint was so strong that things couldn't move it would no doubt crack.
Also consider the fact that in all high stress joints on these boats there are many rivets doing the job, not just a few. With a 217 psi tensile strength, if a 1100F rivet won't do the job, there's a major design flaw in the hull.
I've owned dozens of aluminum boats and repaired more than double that amount over the years, nearly all rivet failures I've seen were from corrosion not overload of the rivet. If the rivet is stronger or harder than the hull, the hull will no doubt suffer more damage than the rivet which would have taken only pennies to replace versus the entire hull or panel.
Repair wise there is no problem with using the harder 2117T4 grade rivets but down the road if corrosion is an issue, it may well attack the hull vs. the new rivets. For the most part, harder rivets are used more in airframe repair or where pressurizing/depressurizing is an issue. When it comes to a boat, the hull acts as one unit so no individual rivet ever takes on any more of a load then the rest when it comes to the base hull assembly. The highest stress points for any rivet may well be the bench seat rivets since very few often are asked to hold your own weight but when you figure that each rivet is rated at say 217lbs+, multiplied by say 12, (Super Star models I believe have 6 rivets per side for each seat bracket), your looking at over 2600lbs total.
With that in mind, its also more likely for a harder rivet to pop or shear under stress rather then to just loosen, personally I'd rather deal with a loose rivet than one that's popped and missing and possibly leaving a wide open hole.
A rivet must also expand when its bucked, this is what seals the hole, not surface pressure. There's actually very little compression force in between the head and the tail of a bucked rivet.