Is anyone out there towing with their Honda Pilot? If so what are you towing and how much does it weigh? Weve been looking at replacing our Ford Explorer and my wife really likes the styling of the AWD Pilot, however Im leery of its towing ability. All the literature says the max tow rating (when equipped with a dealer installed trans cooler and hitch) is 3500 lbs or 4500 lbs if it is towing a boat. Huh? Well according to the dealer, a boat is more aerodynamic and the weight is better distributed then a camper. My boat/motor/trailer/gas and gear come in at 4100 lbs. Any thoughts?