a little embarrassed about this...

DayCruiser

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I have seen long term smokers have heart attacks in their 30s. Smoking narrows all the arteries. Including the arteries in the brain. Just think of it like hoses that pump oil into a engine. The hoses narrow and less oil flows in. Same with blood and the other things that flow through veins. Salt thickens blood. Most everybody eventually clogs up but smoking narrows so you have less room for clogging. Can speed it up by 20 years or more. Narrowing may never take place in non smokers. A non smoker may need bypass surgery from 65 to 75. While a smoker may need it from 30s to 50s. I say may because genetics and diet plays a role too. Salt is also very drying and so shrinks things and cuts back on the lubrication blood needs to flow.
I am no doctor but I would change my diet and quit smoking. Eat Oatmeal. I am pretty sure your Doctor will recommend these things. Lots of people just continue their bad habits and expect pills to fix things. Pills have side effects and therefore can cause a whole lot of new problems.
Also try and get rid of anything that is causing you stress. Not the ole lady haha
I think what is happening to you is your body giving you a warning. Some people never get warning signs of problem. So consider yourself lucky and heed the warning
 

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Causes of ED:
Anxiety and Stress
smoking
High cholesterol and high blood pressure
high sodium diet
lack of exercise
genetics

since you are a smoker - stop now. wont go into the details however suffice to say, I have seen first hand the damage to the vascular system.

also, do not be embarrassed. go see your doc. the issue may be something benign, or something more serious
 

WIMUSKY

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that's why i'm embarrassed!! at 37 i shouldn't be having these problems!! it's not that i can't get it up, but sometimes i have trouble keeping it up. i admit i have let myself go recently, but i didnt expect this. it's time to get back in shape go see a doctor!

Bottom line, go see your doctor and get checked out............ Then go from there...........
 

DayCruiser

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Yea before taking Viagra. See a Doctor. I meant to put that in my other post
 

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I have to say that stress and being out of shape have to be a big factor!


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Try getting in shape.
 

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Cleve - I know we try to be funny about stuff like this, but it is meant in a kind manner. Just remember whoever your health practitioner is, you aren't the first one. They hear the same thing often in the course of a week. And if you do get a physical exam, it's so quick, it's like "when are you gonna start". My experience anyway. Do see a doc, if even just for peace of mind.
 

woody66912

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I would just buy a bigger BOAT!.
 

kenmyfam

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Go see the doc !!!! get your entire self checked out.
 

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that's why i'm embarrassed!! at 37 i shouldn't be having these problems!! it's not that i can't get it up, but sometimes i have trouble keeping it up. i admit i have let myself go recently, but i didnt expect this. it's time to get back in shape go see a doctor!

Or get a younger girlfriend. :D
 

rivermouse

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images (13).jpgFriend this IS a boaters forum and we got plenty of fishermen here. Forget viagra and all that stuff and get you some of these
 

204 Escape

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How much more embarassing could it be than admitting it on the internet for ALOT of people to see that you don't even know !?!? LOL
 

smokeonthewater

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Go get checked out... this thread has been viewed by 425 people and you haven't had one single potentially life saving test!

Talk to only one doctor and....
 

WIMUSKY

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How much more embarassing could it be than admitting it on the internet for ALOT of people to see that you don't even know !?!? LOL

The man has a point!
 

Bill3434

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I have a female doctor, no big deal. She's good looking too. You need to go see a doctor if you are 37, early signs of cardio problems.
 

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Honestly, go see the doc. Your health is important, not only to yourself, BUT TO your family as well !!!!!
 

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I have a female doctor, no big deal. She's good looking too. You need to go see a doctor if you are 37, early signs of cardio problems.

Gonna agree with this. I have cardio and pulmonary issues, and sometimes need a little 'help.' I used to buy from Canada but started having problemns finding one that would supply them w/o a real prescription. So, had to bite the bullet, and my primary care physician is female, too.

2 checkups ago, she asked if I needed new prescriptions. Remember that scene from American Graffiti, when Terry is trying to buy a bottle of Old Harper at the liquor store? I said, 'Yeah, I need Crestor, Plavix... viagra... Bystolic'. Honestly, she didn't bat an eye. Asked me a couple question about previous use, was I familiar with it, blah, blah, and wrote me a prescription.

Just as a personal experience, it comes in different strengths, too. First time I ever bought it I got the strongest (100 mg) and it gave me a wicked headache the next morning. 50 mg works really well for me.


Seriously, get yerself checked. You're coming up on the age when stuff starts to gradually go south on ya. A lot of that stuff can be stopped cold once you know it's happening.
 

Bill3434

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Seriously, get yerself checked. You're coming up on the age when stuff starts to gradually go south on ya. A lot of that stuff can be stopped cold once you know it's happening.

It goes south at an accelerating rate. Of course my problem mightbe that I spent 24yrs in the army. I started on viagra, then levitra, and now cialis.

My doctor ask me what scripts I need too.
 

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Nix your bedroom problems naturally


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Until next time,

Allan Spreen, M.D.
 

cleve

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i must lose the 25 lbs. i recently gained. i took a different job in october that is mainly an office/lab job compared to what i was doing, paper machine, where there was a lot more physical labor and walking. didn't really start eating more, just exercising less and the pounds piled on. then this 'problem' came along.
 
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