So I have the new trim motor attached and it came with a new solenoid. Only problem is I cant remember how it was all wired as it was so long ago. MERCURY MARINE 89-96158 is the solenoid with an Arco 6217 motor.
I guess I should have taken better pictures. What a nightmare!
Some Merc PTT systems have only one solenoid. It will be used on the "Up" circuit. So blue from the motor wire goes on one large post. Red wire goes on the other large post. You still have the 3 wire plug wired, right? The blue wire from the female side of the plug, goes to the small terminal of the solenoid.
Pushed the boat back in the garage. Getting a FOR SALE sign tomorrow and selling it as is. Done with this junk..... thanks for all the attempted to help. I’ve given up.