I've had a bunch of AWDs and 4X4s, unless you plan to do a bit more serious off-road activities the AWDs are typically a better option. On road in the rain, ice or snow AWD is effortless, a 4X4 needs to be manually engaged and disengaged when needed, and frequently you don’t know exactly when "when needed" is until after the fact.
For towing and boat launches AWD works just fine, I haven’t had any problems, and I use my jet boat on rivers that don’t have official paved ramps, just unimproved access that may or may not resemble something you would want to back a trailer down, throw in a little ice, snow or mud and it just adds to the fun.
Some SUVs give you the option of 2wd, fulltime AWD and 4 low, others fewer options, or maybe just AWD.
For about 20 years my territory was WA, OR, ID, MT, AK, BC and Alberta, for a couple of those years you could include UT, CO and CA, I drove all of it. I'’ve had 1 AWD van, 5 AWD SUVs, 3 4WD PUs and 3 Subaru’s, I pulled boats of various sizes with all of them, I’d take AWD any day over 4WD for average on road driving or towing.