First, thank you everyone for your advice. Now time for a little story, aka what to do and what not to do.
The boat is in detroit. I am near Toronto. So basically I can't cross the border to pick it up.
The next logical step would be to find someone to bring it. I found this guy with a flatbed, and he went over to pick it up. I paid $1000 for a 64km trip, from windsor to detroit. No other options. The a-hole selling the boat also had a trailer, but he wanted 4k US for it. I can get a brand new one here for 3k CDN, and with his trailer, I would need to do RIV, and tons of expensive paperwork. 5k CDN easy. I figured therefore that I would get away better with the flatbed and pay some more. I found a nice trailer for it for 1200 on my side too.
Yesterday the yard owner tells me he wants it gone tomorrow morning, before the snow hits. This was the start of bad luck. I was going to go for friday, but the owner rudely let me know that he wasn't going to shovel snow. I pressed my transporter and he left for detroit immediately. In the morning, he arrived at the boat pick up location. Local towing company said they would lift it up off the trailer it was on and put it on a flatbed. my guy waited 2 hrs there, only to get a call that the towing co decided they don't want to do it.
I managed to find a crane co with a 30 ton crane to lift it. after waiting 2 more hours, the crane arrived. They went to lift it, and a boat that was supposed to weigh 3000 lbs tipped the scale at over 4000. My transporter guy said it was overweight at this point, and left empty. seems like the bilge was full of wet snow/ice. Another stupid.
and $1600 down the toilet.
Now that I read your comments, I feel a little better. Maybe a dodged a bullet not loading that thing on the flatbed while full of ice. It has very nice paint too, so I would hate to scratch that.
so not much advice here, except for don't be a looser... and DON'T DEAL WITH THAT GUY EVER! dunno if I should call him out here...