Re: trailer coupler
Here's an FYI for many of you, many of the 2" and 1-7/8" couplers are stamped out of the identical metal, thus rendering the issue of strength useless. The only advantage in that case would be that it would distribute the working load limit into a 1/8" larger diameter.
If you bent it backing up, then you effectively jacknifed the trailer, you would experience the same result with the 2" variety as well, unless it was made with a thicker metal than the 1-7/8".
The other aspect to look at is that many replacement couplers are 3 sided or U shaped get a 4 side or BOX shape coupler if you can, the 1 extra wall can make a big difference in structural integrity, but even then you still take your chances.
Just this summer i got to looking at my trailer and found that the metal on the trailer was that same thickness as that on the coupler, therefore I went the route of inserting a cross reinforced section of box steel inside the tongue (because the original tongue was starting to cave in where items were bolted to it.)