tpenfield those videos are amazing! maybe its the thrill seeker in me but those look like fun not scary! Of course i can see how those could wreak a boat or have someone fly off. that would be something more for me and my wife only or just with the boys.
Yup . . . not sure I'd want to do that for very long though. Little boats get tossed around pretty good. I've only been caught in that sort of slop a few times and fortunately did not have far to go (maybe 5 miles or so). Usually, it starts out as a decently calm day and then the afternoon winds pick up more than expected and you are sort of stuck having to try to get through it on the way home.
I have 'stuffed the bow' only once in rough conditions, and was glad I have a cuddy/cabin style boat. A couple of years ago in our local waters there was a 24 foot bowrider that went out on a windy day and stuffed the bow into a wave. The boat was immediately swamped and rolled over within a few seconds, trapping a child underneath
This past weekend we nearly got caught in a very strong pop-up thunderstorm storm. . . we ran out of beer and decided to go home early which was sort of a saving grace . . We got back to the harbor just as the storm was hitting
90% of the time the weather is fine, its the other days that you got to be ready for. I often tell new boaters that "boating is dangerous, it only looks like fun"
It's those time where you want to have thought about what your boat is capable of and what are its (and your) limits. Will your boat stay afloat if swamped ??? . . . some do, some don't. Are you ready for the engine to die unexpectedly in challenging conditions? ( I've had that happen a couple of times) Etc. . . .
Anyway, per my other post, it sounds like the boat club will get a significant amount of money over a 3 year contract term ($23K), so it is sort of a coin-toss as to what would work better for you. Just keep in mind that boating is expensive, and 'ocean boating' tends to be more so as compared to 'lake boating', because you want/need a better boat under your feet.