We have the same boat, you described my situation exactly and one of many light weight sport boats. You need to work with the limits of the boat too. A Stingray is very lightweight compared to the competition, it is relatively fast and loves flat water, even with the 3.0L if I have a glass lake situation I'll trim up a little and floor it

It loves speed. All other times I'm completely trimmed all the way down!
With such a boat you DO need to move people around to get on plaine, It is impossible to not. Even with just the 2 of us on board, if my partner is in the back seat I notice a sizable change in the ability to get on plane, (he's under 180). I can get on plane with 4 Normal people in the back cockpit area but it takes some time.... Essentially everyone that has been on my boat understands that at times- you need to move around to balance things and I'm not shy about telling whomever that they need to move (ex: everyone sitting on one side...)
I have a 4 blade prop and it seems to do a good job out of the hole, It's a real good wakeboarding boat for us!