Rough week for me - Prayer requests

Benny1963

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Re: Rough week for me - Prayer requests

thats tuff times ,
me and my familys prayers will be with you.
Bennyb
 

Pimp Daddy

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Re: Rough week for me - Prayer requests

Prayers are on the way for all involved. It is always so much worse when the deaths are premature and senseless. 2 years ago on New Years eve there was a stabbing at the bar I worked at. The young man who was stabbed nearly died. It was by the grace of God that he is still alive. The useless POS that did it is still free and it looks as though he will never spend time in jail. The stupidity can never be taken back. I hope the incident lives forever in the perpetrators mind. I think it would do both you and your friend a world of good to get in the truck, drive out and surf all day. Not a word needs to be spoken, the act will speak for itself.
 

boatradioman

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Re: Rough week for me - Prayer requests

its her fault she was hiding but I hope things go well and I wish luck
 

Bob_VT

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Re: Rough week for me - Prayer requests

Kevin.... I am at a loss for words. Check your PM

Bob
 

QC

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Re: Rough week for me - Prayer requests

its her fault
She's dead . . .

This really didn't even make me mad, but I thought we were gonna like you around here radioboy . . . To be fair to you, we were all angry with her. Her kids are angry with her etc. Seems like an outta place comment though dude . . .
 

Geo2008

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Re: Rough week for me - Prayer requests

QC - You and your family are in my prayers, sometimes life is so f-ing hard to deal with....hang in there buddy, the sun will shine again.
 

SgtMaj

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Re: Rough week for me - Prayer requests

It's not her fault, it's not like there's a popup that says "you've got cancer" (in the aol email voice) the minute you have cancer. It's a progressive disease, so what you think is just a temporary and minor problem is really much more serious. The next day you might feel fine, but slowly you start deteriorating, but it's slow enough that you think you're just getting old. You think people suddenly just know they have cancer boatradioman? Think again. Of course, that's a lesson you'll find out soon enough, the hard way.

Next thing you know you'll go see your doctor because you're getting headaches every morning and a few days later they'll be scheduling you for surgery to have a tumor removed from your head, and that's if you're lucky enough to even catch it in time to still be operable. Otherwise you'll get to go through radiation and chemo therapy just to try and shrink the tumor down to an operable size. So then you'll get to go through that awefulness and by the time you're done with that, you'll just about wish you were dead, but that's just the start of this hell. Her fault my ***... :mad:

At least she had friends and family there to love and support her 'til the end. I hope you change your attitude in time that you might have someone there when that time comes for you too, but with that attitude, I think you'll have a hard, lonely time trying to get through that when your time comes around.
 

pduquette

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Re: Rough week for me - Prayer requests

QC sorry to hear the news. I've lost quite a few family /friends to cancer too. My prayers for your family and hers too . I hope this year starts to get better.........:(
 

zach103

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Re: Rough week for me - Prayer requests

Recently just lost a good friends mother to cancer.. she left 2 kids 15 and 17... one of the hardest things in my life... my prayers go out to you and your family and friends.
 

QC

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Re: Rough week for me - Prayer requests

OK, so Stacey's Funeral is tomorrow @ 10:00 . . . and . . . we have our Nephew's Wedding in Havasu @ 4:00 . . . Only 289 miles apart . . . we have 5 of us and we're going for it. Just like Stacey, since she can't go to the River, she's gonna make us work for it. You go girl!!! We sat around tonight thinking about tomorrow, and all we could think was she's supposed to be here popping a Miller Lite. That's all she would drink, so we decided we're taking a sixer to the Wedding Reception, one for Stacey and the rest for us.

This is really a drag . . . we are trying to remain positive, but she's gone, disappeared, evaporated, gone. That's all I could think all day. She was all around us, she was with us camping, boating, she was with us at the Hollywood Bowl, she was talking to lonely neighbors, she was energetic, pretty, hot, funny, goofy, paranoid, silly, all of it until late last October, then . . . There will be 15 families from our local neighborhood alone there. I expect a huge turnout, and there will be. She touched a lot of people.

We spent a little while out front with her oldest today, Garrett. Mostly Mrs. QC; I was chasing the Beagle around :rolleyes: He went to school with our oldest. Like the rest of us, he (they) has been trying to figure this out for 4 months. He told us of her last minutes. Amazing story. She had been in a coma for 24 hours and Garrett slept with her last. Everyone woke up at 7:00 AM Wed. and joined him with her. Bob kissed her and she grimaced at his morning breath :eek: everyone got a chuckle out of Mom. That was their Mom, reminding Dad to brush his teeth before the morning kiss . . . Classic Stacey and they all knew she was there and then . . . she was gone . . .
 

SpinnerBait_Nut

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Re: Rough week for me - Prayer requests

QC, it is hard to lose one for sure.
Just keep positive and think of all the good times.
Keep positive for her family.
They see you down and it will be worse on them.
I know, it's hard to do, BTDT, but you can do it.
Prayers still going out to you and her family.
 

Benny1963

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Re: Rough week for me - Prayer requests

sorry for yalls loss .
god is with you all .
ps were do you live boatradioman
love to come visit ya sometime .
Bennyb.
 
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