Rough week for me - Prayer requests

QC

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I was in the UK for a management team meeting earlier this week. On Tuesday night we learned that the guy I am temporarily replacing in Houston, Todd, is going through an unimaginable tragedy. We are still close to him as he now runs one of our supplier's shop. Anyway, the night after Christmas, his 20 YO son, Matthew, was having a bonfire party on their front lawn to celebrate the State Football Championship won by his Alma mater Katy High School. Anyway, he was home from college for the Holidays, and apparently an unwanted guest arrived and after he asked him to leave the 15 year old POS came back with some friends and fatally stabbed Matthew and injured two others. Matthew died right there on the front lawn and I am sure that Todd probably was there and witnessed his oldest bleed to death.

I can't get this out of my head as I have a son of the same age, who would have the same type of party and I guess could attract the same POS and also would ask him to leave . . . :( :mad:

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Well that's just the half of it . . . Yesterday morning (Thursday) in the UK, my cell phone rings at 4:30 AM. It's Mrs. QC and she is crying. Well those of you with kids and that travel for business will know that a phone call from home is always worrying, especially at 4:30 AM, and she does know what time it is there . . . She is crying so bad I can't understand her. Finally I get it out of her that one of our good friend's wives was diagnosed with cancer all over her body. They give her one to two weeks :( Great lady (Stacey), three kids, great husband (Bob). They were High School sweethearts. We have boated together some, and we just went to Genesis a few months ago with them and had a blast. My oldest went to school with their oldest, my youngest goes to school with their youngest etc. We have even vacationed together a few times, and Bob thanks me almost everytime I see him for showing him the way into the Grand Canyon. Mrs. QC and Stacey talk every day at the bus stop and they live just around the corner from us, so pretty close friends.

Apparently she has been hiding a lump she found in her breast and has never had a mammogram . . . She is probably 45ish. They missed our Xmas party as she was in bed with a "bad back". Turns out the cancer is in her spine, liver, brain lesions etc. I am also feeling pretty guilty cause when Mrs. QC finally blurted it out, I was actually relieved as it wasn't one of us . . .

Prayers and thoughts for Todd and Stacey would be appreciated. We definitely need a miracle for Stacey!
 
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Re: Rough week for me - Prayer requests

Prayers for them, and for you ... that you will be strengthened and have the right words to say when appropriate, and be there when they just need someone to lean on.
 

Bigprairie1

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All of that is tough to deal with...no easy feat. When things get tough and mean its hard to remember that at some point things always improve again.
Best of luck to you, hang in there.
 

JRJ

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That is some bad news. Sorry to hear. Wish all concerned strength and peace.
 

MikDee

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So Sorry to hear, A crushing blow to both families, and you as close friends. Such a senseless, violent, final act,,, Why does it always have to end this way? And your good friends wife, and family, it's not fair! so young, vital, & good. My Prayers for you all.
 

Haut Medoc

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Sorry for all of the bad news, hope things brighen up soon.....:(
 

Windykid

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Your friends are in my prayers!:(
 

Bob_VT

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You got it.... you could use the help....
 

SpinnerBait_Nut

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You know without asking QC that they are on the way.
 

jay_merrill

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Re: Rough week for me - Prayer requests

These are both tragedies and hard to deal with. I went through breast cancer with my mother, who fought it for seven years. At these times, I think all any of us can do is to seek solice in our families and friends.

My thoughts are with you and the families involved.
 

tashasdaddy

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my thoughts, and best wishes are for you, your family, and friends.
 

Gary H NC

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My prayers are with you and both the other families QC.Stay strong for them and your family.Very tough time,such a shame.
 

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thats rough...bont know what to say except....yes i will.
 

mikeandronda

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Will pray for all invovled. I lost a friend in a situation like that (Murdered)about 10 yrs ago. Was at a party and some guys started to give him a hard time about having long hair. they kicked em out of the party and when my freind left the ran em off the road and jumped out and stabbed him. He got back in his car drove 3 blocks to his house......and died on his front lawn in his brothers arms.......My band did a benifit gig to raise money to put out a reward for info on who they were who did it and these pieces of human dung ( The ones who were with the guy who did the stabbing) tryed to collect the reward by turning him in. Wisconsin had a law where they being invovled couldnt collect the money and if fact they were charged with being a party to a crime, so it went to his brother who every yr threw a huge B-day bash for his brother with the reward money. ( Well at least for 3 yrs after) It still sometimes chokes me up thinking about what a waste it was.....
 

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Man I hate it when parents with kids still at home have this dreaded disease. It has reeked havoc on my family several times. Prayers go out to yours and thier familys QC.
 

IOSLVR

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Prayers for you and your wife as well as for Todd, Stacey, and their respective families. May God's peace be with you all during these times.
 

Kenneth Brown

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Awful news to hear QC. Will be praying for all of ya'll.
 

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I will pray for you, and for the swift execution (legal or otherwise, it's all the same to me) of the POS.
 

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Thats awful QC. Hang in there and I hope you have some time to get home and be with the family. They'll be needing you.
Don't beat yourself up too badly for thinking of your family first. I think it's just a natural reaction to crying 4AM phone call.
 
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