I bet if you do wind up opening her up, even with nothing to "guide" you... it will go back together... better than it is now,,, and more than likely better than she left the factory! I'm "feeling you" though. It's nice to have the experience of others to lean on before tackling such a big piece, but it's "just a window", right?? Start removing fasteners, pry (gently) and see what's moving, or more importantly, what's NOT moving. Find out if it's just some stubborn adhesive (some pressure with the help of a putty knife), or a hidden fastener. I'm guessing you have "kitty hair" or similar over your interior walls. I suppose there could be fasteners behind the fabric, but for the most part, I've seen MOST fasteners are exposed. If they ARE hidden behind fabric, you can either feel for them and make a little incision with a razor blade, do your work and glue the "scar" back together, or start peeling back the fabric from the wall, do your work and glue it back up when finished. Remember, you boat was put together by human beings. It WILL come apart. You can and will get her back together again, and it WILL be better! After all... you actually CARE about your boat. and not just collecting your paycheck for slapping her together. I think you already realize that this is not something that you are going to do a good job with by just squeezing some sealant around it and praying (or you wouldn't be here). Unless it's just a screw that is missing or loose from the outside allowing water to find its way in, I'd take a deep breath, turn on some soothing music (cabins are nice aren't they) and become one with your boat. Grab a tarp to throw over her if your worried about not finishing her in an afternoon. I'm certain that you can do this, even if the factory seals aren't available. Today's sealants and adhesives are MUCH better than anything that was around in 1984. Take some pics of the area that has you stumped. Better yet share your experience with all here! Some will help... others will learn! Good luck mate, Will follow along.
Norm