Im thrilled to report success in getting the drive unstuck, getting the quad gear back on, and the tilt motor is working perfectly, using the tilt switch, it automatically tilts the drive up and down. Thank you all for you time and advice! it WORKED!!
What I did:
I loosened the pivot bolts and the stern drive manually lifted easily, no ratchet strap was needed.
I pumped grease into the fittings while the pivot bolts were loose.
With the drive in full up position, I bolted the quad gear back on.
I sprayed penetrant on the tapered alignment pins.
I packed the tilt clutch box with marine grease (after cleaning it out real well, it had some water mixed in with the oil).
I put marine grease on the quad gear and small gear it connects/interlocks with because it looked a little brownish or rusty. Question: Is greasing the quad gear and small gear okay? or will it attract dirt and grit into the gears?