I've purchased the complete kit below when we replaced the Impeller.
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Obviously it's not the easiest process to confirm the Water Hose has connected with the Internal Receptacle, but definitely second time around that seems to be the case.
Not sure if you have any particular way/method of ensuring its lodging correctly.
"just wondering if the O ring where the drive joins may have been dislodged or not put in "
Not sure exactly what you are referring to with this comment itself..
I'm not massively concerned about the Shifting Issues... I feel this is more likely an alignment/adjustment issue because I've had the Shift Cable off the Engine Risers etc when I was replacing Head Gasket/Intake Manifold etc..
I'll approach that issue once I have some Water Pumping!!!