I'm just wanting to make sure that I'm not one of those people that everyone here fumes about <br /><br />My better half isn't interested in backing the tow vehicle down the ramp, nor is she interested in driving the boat onto the trailer. This suits both of us, as the boat's a 14' and easy to load and unload myself. While I'm doing that, she packs or unpacks the gear, keeps the kids out of trouble..etc... Also, if she's not involved, she knows that I can't blame her for anything that doesn't go right I WILL NOT be a "screaming boat launch husband".<br /><br />Launching's fine...I back in, shove it off the trailer and she takes the lead rope and ties it up out of the way while I park.<br /><br />Reloading....I back in, and load the boat opposite to the way I launch. I lead the empty boat with the lead rope, pulling onto the trailer with a big heave, then winching the last 3-4 feet and then securing a safety strap from the bow eye to the winch tower.(I watched a poor guy with a winch that came unlocked halfway down the ramp once..the end result wasn't pretty...I always use a safety strap when the winch cable is the only thing holding the boat on the trailer)<br />Whole process takes 3-4 minutes, tops.<br />Once I'm back into the parking area I'll secure the rear tie-downs, move gear from the boat to the van, etc..<br /><br />Everyone else I see has someone back down the ramp, then powers the boat onto the trailer.<br /><br />I've read about this digging holes at the end of the ramp...having a rear wheel drive van as a tow vehicle, I'd like the ramp to be in the best condition possible. Plus, this looks like a great way to cause un-necessary damage to boat/trailer/tow vehicle. (For someone of limited boating experience)<br /><br />Is 4-5 minutes too long to back down, load, and clear the ramp? <br /><br />Should I try and convince better half to either back down the ramp, or drive the boat onto the trailer? She's really not interested in either one..<br />Or should I just launch and load the way I feel comfortable, and not worry about taking too much time?<br /><br />Being a newbie sucks..nothing like getting butterflies when you arrive at the boat launch.