ehenry
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I've been a member here for a while now and have come to value the thoughts and opinions of the folks on this board. My sisters and I, have a tough situation ahead of us.<br /><br />Both our parents are still living and in good health. Still active, mamma gets out, weather permitting, and walks two miles everyday, tends her flowers and volanteers for various things. Daddy still walks 18 to 36 holes of golf on the week days with whats left of his golfing buddies and plays Gin Rummy every Monday with the same guys when the Country Club is closed. Both are still fairly mentally alert and sharp at 86 and 82 years of age.<br /><br />Yesterday, while driving home from my sister's house in Louisiana, Pop had an accident in his brand spankin new Cadillac that he bought just this past Thursday. Instead of paying attention to what he was doing he was just following the traffic in front of him. Doing so, it caused him to exit The Natchez Trace before he should have. Instead of continuing on and finding a suitable turn around he tried to veer back onto the parkway hitting a concrete curb. This blew out both front tires, busted both front cast aluminum wheels on the car. It also may have gotten the oil pan on the car too. Not sure about the oil pan, just know there was a fluid of some sort leaking from the car.<br /><br />This isn't the first accident of this sort thats happened. AND, according to Mamma, there have been numerous close call incidents that we have no idea about.<br /><br />My question to all you on this board is....At what point in a elderly parents life do you approach them and appeal to their common sense that they just can't go and do like they are accustomed too. Daddy is going to be a tough one on this. He was a memeber of the Mississippi Senate for 8 or 12 years, I dont really remember, a president and chairman of a state financial institution and retired at the top of his career, A B-24 pilot in WWII and just pain stubborn. <br /><br />Mamma has accepted the fact that she doesn't need to be driving and going like she use to and gets one of my sisters to take to her out of town when she needs to go. Pop is going to be a different story.<br /><br />I know there's some of yall out there that have had to cross this bridge. I would greatly appreciate any thoughts and wisdom you could pass on to me on how to approach and handle this.