There have been some very harsh and, in my view, very unfair opinions expressed on this board lately about poor people, notably those who didn't evacuate New Orleans (ignoring the fact that many of them couldnt evacuate anyway).<br /><br />The constant theme is that the poor deserve everything they get because they're too mean or stupid or criminal to help themselves. <br /><br />I've rarely met anyone poor who liked it or who didn't want to be better off. Whether people had the ability or motivation to change their circumstance might be a different issue, but sometimes people who have been ground down by life don't have a lot of get up and go. Sometimes it doesn't matter if they do, because the odds are so far against them that they're stuck where they are.<br /><br />Some realities are:<br /><br />- Kids generally wont turn out too well if brought up by unsatisfactory (drunk, violent, drug addicted, child sex abusing, serial de facto partner, and other undesirable things) parents who don't give their kids a stable base in life; who dont value education; and who don't instil good values in their kids. We can predict that some kids probably wont turn out well even before they're born, if we know who the parents are. But when these sometimes unwanted or accidental kids get to be problems in primary or secondary school, or later in life, these pre-ordained human disasters are required by some people to be fully responsible for their own actions and are judged by the rigid standards of people who never had any of those problems or who wont make any allowances for the history and circumstances of others.<br /><br />- Lots of things happen to people in life that see them end up where they don't want to be. Divorce, unemployment, bankruptcy, war service, car accidents, work accidents, their children dying, physical or nervous breakdown. Things have a habit of compounding: lose a job; fragile marriage collapses; missus disappears with the kids who were the main purpose of your life; lose your house; missus chasing you for child support but won't let you see the kids; drink too much; police trouble or car or work accident; can't get a job or can't hold one. Or the woman trying to raise kids on welfare because her former husband wont pay any child support while hes working black money cash jobs and living the good life with virtually no traceable income on which to base child support. She cant get a job because shes stuck with the 9 month old kid hubby wont pay for and nobody but her to care for his and her 3 kids.<br /><br />- Some people get slotted into categories they can't escape. A simple personal example. Forty years ago I worked a range of jobs around the bush, mostly in (sheep) shearing sheds. We were the lowest of the low, except for the circus people, who got blamed ahead of us for the burglaries the locals did when shearers or the circus came into town. I've been in Aboriginal camps on river banks in the '60's that make the worst conditions of America's Southern blacks in decrepit shacks at the same time look like paradise. To my discredit I was there on a couple of occasions with grog seeking women. I've seen Aboriginal women offer themselves to me and men I was with for the change on the bar from a beer and I've seen men accept the offer. These events cement the notion on both sides about where people fit into society and their relative worth and status. They lead to the disgraceful jokes I told and laughed at then, and for a time after. They lead to the belief that some people are worth less than others. They allow us then, and now, to say that these are able bodied people who can get a job any time they like. A problem is that some employers in country towns I was in the 60s had been down to the Abo camp on the riverbanks with a bottle of port and a bulge in the pants. I know that because I was there with some of them. They wouldnt employ people like that, because Abos were scum whod shag anyone for a bottle of port. Not the sort of people youd want to be dealing with your customers. These attitudes live on in less vivid ways, even among people who have no knowledge of such events and attitudes but who have absorbed the modern distilled attitudes from others that these are worthless people who live on welfare because thats all they want. In more subtle ways these attitudes permeate the attitudes of many people to others who are products of circumstances of birth and other things beyond their control.<br /><br />Blaming the victims also cements the superior position of the speaker: I am more worthy than them and deserve the good I receive as my due for being worthy, while they are less worthy than me and deserve the bad they earn as their due for being worthless. .<br /><br />Unlike some of the people slamming the poor, I dont profess to be a Christian although I think there is self-evident merit in much of Christs teaching. But if I was a Christian Id be embarrassed if I condemned the poor when Christ, himself the model of poverty and the champion of the poor against oppression and exploitation, said:<br /><br />-"Let each one do just as he has purposed in his heart; not grudgingly or under compulsion; for God loves a cheerful giver." Corinthians 9:7: <br /><br />- "But whoever has the world's goods, and beholds his brother in need and closes his heart against him, how does the love of God abide in him? Little children, let us not love with word or with tongue, but in deed and truth." 1 John 3:17 <br /><br />"Jesus said to him, "If you wish to be complete, go and sell your possessions and give to the poor, and you shall have treasure in heaven; and come, follow Me." Matthew 19:21 <br /><br />"For you know the grace of our Lord Jesus Christ, that though He was rich, yet for your sake He became poor, that you through His poverty might become rich." 2 Corinthians 8:9, <br /><br /><br />And Im well aware of labourers being worthy of their hire and of the injunction against supporting bludgers, which I share:<br /><br />We command you, brothers, to keep away from every brother who is idle and does not live according to the teaching you received from us
we gave you this rule: "If a man will not work, he shall not eat." We hear that some among you are idle
such people we command and urge in the Lord Jesus Christ to settle down and earn the bread they eat. 2 Thessalonians 3: 6-12<br /><br /><br />The same sentiments are to be found in Judaism and Islam, not least because they share a lot of the same texts and attitudes. The same as just about every reasonable person in the world probably does, regardless of religion.<br /><br />As for having a modern understanding of the poor, I dont think anybody has put it better or more eloquently than Jason J in this post at http://www.iboats.com/cgi-bin/ubb/ultimatebb.cgi?ubb=get_topic;f=20;t=010928#000026 <br /><br />O'reilly is correct that children need to see what is happening with our poor to help better motivate them to want to succeed. That is only part of the equation though. The reality is working your butt off and getting a degree does not guarantee you anything anymore. There is not an infinite amount of high earning jobs, and even moderate earning jobs are limited. There are counltess amounts of well educated people working grunt jobs because there are countless well educated people. College is great if you are specialized in a field that there is a high demand for. A general degree in whatever only proves you know how to waste a few years delaying the inevitable.<br /><br />What children and young adults need to learn is to decide what they want, and to strive for it, but to also realize they will have to work the grunt jobs to maybe get where they want. We all want our kids to do well, but someone has to pick up the trash. To just tell poor people to get off their arse and get a job is easier said than done. They are faced with the economical fact that most readily available jobs do not pay all of their expenses. Why should they even bother when they know they can get more on welfare? What would you do if you were a single mother who knew she would be placing her kids in less than optimal circumstances by working a menial job when she can just go on the dole? Lets face it. Day care, food, clothes, fuel, housing cannot be paid for with the low wage jobs that are out there. It is easy to blame the poor for being poor. The reality is they are given only bad choices. Yes, in my mind, they should all strive for employment. I am not sticking up for those who choose to stay on welfare, I am just stating facts about what the poor are faced with. <br /><br />I grew up in that situation, where the family went through hard times. My mother made some bad choices, things went bad, but we recovered and pulled out of the misery. Not everyone can do that though. We did it only because the kids grew up and left, leaving only me and my mother. If there would have been more kids, it would have never worked. As far as I am concerned, when it comes to the subject of poverty, you have no opinion unless you have been there. I grow weary of people who have no idea what it is like to go without food *****ing about the lazy poor. If your idea of being poor is only having one car, then shut the f##k up, you don't know squat. If you have ever LIVED out of a car, then you have a basis for comment.<br /><br />In a perfect sunshiny happy world, everybody would work and there would be no poor, but guess what, it will never be like that. You will alway have the rich, and the people who work for the rich. How the hell would anything get done if there wasn't people out there to do the crap jobs? Do you really think society could function when the garbage man makes as much as a lawyer? Get a clue people, society only works when there is poor people.