Re: I'm done helping my adult kids!
Sorry for not updating yesterday afternoon, but the saga continues.<br /><br />Let me describe the SIL/SOB that is the problem here. I have been calling him a SIL even though he is not married to my step daughter. He is about 5'10", 350+lbs, no teeth (has some but won't wear them) tongue piereced, and comes from generations of welfare receipiants. He knows more about social programs for getting money than a democrat. He has another child that he is doing his best to support. Courts forced him to start a bank account to handle the Child Support. 5 years ago he got a felony assult for beating his uncle so bad, his uncle was in the hospital for 2 to 3 weeks. He has also got one domestic violence against him, the second time will be another felony! This guy problably could hurt me bad if we would get physical, but I havn't tucked my tail and backed down. I just get back into his face to let him know I'm not threatened by his size and smell.<br /><br />Last night I was really so hot and mad I had good reasons to call the sheriff (but didn't). My wife asked me about what we were going to do about the cell phone. I told her that it was up to her since the phone was added on to our account for her daughter.<br /><br />So my best half called her daughter and asked her about the phone. Well, it seens that her daughter has now been turned against her mom. She was saying stuff on the phone that downright hurt my wifes feelings. She was blaming me for everything that has happened and that I'm the controlling one. (Yes I'm in control of the money, so I guess I'm controlling). Then the so called SIL got on the phone and rehashed everthing that happened the night before. Again we just wanted to know if the wanted to continue to pay and use the phone or not. <br /><br />Wife finially hung up on them and said she was going over to get the phone. To make a long story short, the SIL/SOB said it was me that sent her over to get the phone. WAS NOT! it was my wifes idea to get the phone. So he got mad and slammed the phone to the ground. Then a piece of it flew into the window hitting my wifes arm leaving a welt, burise, and small cut. Of course she drove off with an injury and hurt feelings. I wanted to call the sheriff and place charges on the butt munch, but the wife said her daughter needs him right now regardless of what is going on. Cause if I did call, he would have been locked up. Then when he would get out, there would be no guessing on what he would do then.<br /><br />It just makes me mad that he has influenced 3 people in my life that I considered family. This low life is not even good enough to marry my stepdaughter, but then it is a good idea if they don't.<br /><br />Right now we are going to stand our ground, turn down all replies for any type help, and turn away from any communications from them.<br /><br />Eventually the 3 we love most will come to their senses when SIL/SOB turns on them. It is just a matter of time.<br /><br />Then about the repair to my truck. The dumb butt didn't event take into consideration of my ability to fix my truck myself. It was an insult to me that he wanted someone else to fix my truck. For pete's sake, I'm a maintenance person, if fix broken things. DUH! After 3 years, you think he would have undestood that I have the capability to do such. But if it doesn't benefit him directly, he doesn't care and remember.<br /><br />Thanks for your reply's and support. It is greatly appreaciated.
<br />Well, hopefully everything will work out for you SS.
