eeboater
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Imagine you are a younger 26 year-old man. You're happily married making enough money for you and your wife to live VERY comfortably. <br /><br />Your father owns a computer consulting company and is begging you to join him in the next 6 years because eventually, he wants to retire and give you the whole shooting match, company, contacts, everything. Your income would nearly 10 times what you earn today. This is something that you have always wanted to do since you were young.<br /><br />But, your wife doesn't want to move two states away from her family. Your wife also knew that you wanted to do this before you got married.<br /><br />The odd part is that your wife is 2 hours away from her family anyways, and see's them once every 3 months now. <br /><br />Lets add an additional level of complexity to the situation. Seven years ago, you got into a very serious argument with your father in which you didn't speak with him for over 2 years. They were for reasons which have long since been resolved and the relationship has been rebuilt and stronger than ever. This isn't a reason your wife is giving for not wanting to move there -- but you are positive it is in the back of her head.<br /><br />Would you give up your lifelong dream?<br /><br />Sean