Re: DNA question
I have 3 kids...No1 is 36, No2 is 34 and No3 is 11.<br />I am 58, and the wife 48. (N0 1 and 2 are from 1st marriage).<br />The last, No3 has it all over the others when they were his age.<br />I put it down to the maturity of the parents and the stability of their relationship in both personal and economic terms.<br />There is no stress on us regards finances. Everything is freehold, business is OK and the material things like furniture, vehicles, boat etc etc are all in place and replacing them is on an as-needs basis.<br />The little guy attends a private school, not because i believe it will make him smarter, but the discipline and positive attitude is there.<br />We live on acerage and he has known nothing different. TV has never been an important part of his life.<br />When disasters occur, I handle them quite differently to what i did with the older 2, because I expect them, they don't shock or worry me, I have been there-done that before. Learnt that 20 years later those things are irrevelant.<br />So personally, I believe genes/DNA etc don't change, the older parent is just more stable and experienced, and that rubs off on to the kid.<br />Disadvantages of having a youngster at my age:<br />helping with homework<br />supervising assignments<br />never being able to finds your tools<br />after school activities.<br />Benefits - well the house is always alive, and in a mess, and there is always a problem to explain.<br />Cheers<br />Phillip <br />I