Congratulations, you are the only sucess story I have ever heard of in my 60 years of boating !! You are definetly not part of the normal.I've been in a successful partnership for three years. Both of us are mechanically inclined and share in the maintenance, bottom painting, waxing, etc. We use a Google calendar to reserve time on the boat. For my wife and I it wasn't worth paying for the boat, slip fees, and doing maintenance all by ourselves given all the other activities we do.