Skiuseme
Chief Petty Officer
- Joined
- Jun 18, 2003
- Messages
- 409
Here?s the situation, My Wife and I are trying not to go into debt any farther than we already are. I have sold my car that needed to go and we are down to one auto. We do work opposite shifts but, with my meetings early in the morning it just doesn?t work out to have one auto.
I have 2 options that I see one is fine and one is what I want to do.
Option 1. My grandfather doesn?t drive but owns an auto. I have been borrowing it for 3 weeks but, I feel INSLAVED to him for using it. I have offered to pay him for the mileage and maintenance of the vehicle, also have let him know that at any time if he needs it, it will be there for him. He does have a driver with her own auto (my Grandmother) so if they need to go somewhere this is not a problem. Once again I feel in slaved to him for using this auto and would feel bad if something happened.
Option 2. I have some money saved up to purchase an auto and could do this today. I am mechanically declined and it would be a rather large feat if I could change the air filter.... I cannot write a large check in my eyes but, could come up with about $3000 if need be. I do not want anyone else?s problems because I don?t have time or money for it. This would be in my eyes the best option for me and want I want to do but, if I could put it off for a few months I could obtain a different auto for a larger amount.
The Advise that I?m looking for is what would you do?
I have 2 options that I see one is fine and one is what I want to do.
Option 1. My grandfather doesn?t drive but owns an auto. I have been borrowing it for 3 weeks but, I feel INSLAVED to him for using it. I have offered to pay him for the mileage and maintenance of the vehicle, also have let him know that at any time if he needs it, it will be there for him. He does have a driver with her own auto (my Grandmother) so if they need to go somewhere this is not a problem. Once again I feel in slaved to him for using this auto and would feel bad if something happened.
Option 2. I have some money saved up to purchase an auto and could do this today. I am mechanically declined and it would be a rather large feat if I could change the air filter.... I cannot write a large check in my eyes but, could come up with about $3000 if need be. I do not want anyone else?s problems because I don?t have time or money for it. This would be in my eyes the best option for me and want I want to do but, if I could put it off for a few months I could obtain a different auto for a larger amount.
The Advise that I?m looking for is what would you do?