Re: 2007 Mercruiser 4.3mpi starting/alternator problem
You afre going to have to find out where the open is in the system.  Most likely a fuse or circuit breaker.  when you jump to the excite wire you are just powering up the system backwards.
There should be a square fuse 

 on the starter solenoid that could be the problem, then on to the engines 50A main breaker, then on to the instrument panel with a 20A fuse in the red/purple striped wire going to the ignition switch B terminal.
Any one of those could be the problems.