So, i got back down there and looked, and if there is a 3 prong plug on the control, it is well hidden.
I can't say how it was integrated with the concealed control on those years engines, but the standard control box had a tach plug on the back(facing the stern). I wouldn't think it would be on that control panel.
Regardless, you need to locate wherever the engine harness comes out of the boat/floor. You could follow just about any of the wires coming out of the ignition switch, but in this case use the yellow wire w/ red stripe. That
should be the starter relay exciter if the previous owner didn't change anything. That wire should trace back to the engine harness. If you locate the harness, look for the gray tachometer wire.
If you still can't find it, go to your engine and pull the engine harness connector apart, the large red one, and look for the tach pin on the "Boat-side" of the harness(pictured). Using a multi-meter, check for continuity from that pin to any of the wires you find by the console. It's possible the PO changed the wire color.
As a last resort if you still can't find it or if it isn't there. Remove the power pack from just behind the flywheel of your engine. It's 2 nuts(careful you don't break the ground wire on the one stud) and 2 bolts, uses a 7/16 socket I believe. Gently lift that up and tilt it back. Look for the gray wire on the terminal strip coming up from the rectifier/regulator(pictured). You can run a dedicated wire from there all the way to your console. Kind of a pain, but if it's the only option......