84 35hp Merc - I have worked on this for several hours over two nights... I can get the crank and everything to line up but cant get the shift shaft splines to line up allowing the lower unit to go up the rest of the way. Is this a 2 person job? The rod from the motor has a ton of play side to side and its so far up in the housing you cant see when its lined up with the lower end splines! when I push up on the lower end I do see the shift rod move under the cowling so I know that's where I am hanging up at. Looking to hopefully get some tips.