Re: videos of outboards in full trim/wake/height out of water.
My method which as Bob said depends on the boat. On my bass boats, I have adequate power to come out of the hole rapidly with little regard for trim. If you have a heavy transom boat, or are limited with your HP then tucked in to some degree (depending on things he mentioned) helps to get the bow down and get her on the water. On some boats, all the way in is best.
Once on the water the tach and speedometer tell you what you want to know. You can be at WOT with the trim in like you would have on some boats on hole shot (tucked in) and once up and doing all the boat will do, just trim out, the bow rises, the rpms and mph both increase, sometimes drastically and you can continue trimming out until one of two things happen: Either the boat starts porposing, or you trim your prop out of the water and the rpms go up and the mph go down. On both, just trim back down till the problem stops.
If you want to just cruise around at nominal speed, a tucked in trim is best as it helps to get the transom up, reduce the boat in the water (drag) and helps to get the stern up which saves on gas and reduces the wake that may be annoying to other boaters.
Mark