The "price" of being a parent.

KaGee

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Yeppers... that is a good bang for the buck. And that doesn't even include the government subsides!
 

JB

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The "price" of being a parent.

I got this by Email from my daughter, the grandma and have to share it.<br /><br /><br />I have repeatedly seen the breakdown of the cost of raising a child, but this is the first time I have seen the rewards listed this way. It's nice, really nice!! <br /><br />The government recently calculated the cost of raising a child from birth to 18 and came up with $160,140 for a middle-income family. Talk about sticker shock! That doesn't even touch college tuition. <br /><br />But $160,140 isn't so bad if you break it down. It translates into $8,896.66 a year, $741.38 a month, or $171.08 a week. That's a mere $24.24 a day! Just over a dollar an hour. <br /><br />Still, you might think the best financial advice is don't have children if you want to be "rich." Actually, it is just the opposite. <br /><br />What do you get for your $160,140? <br /><br />Naming rights. First, middle, and last! <br /><br />Glimpses of God every day. <br /><br />Giggles... under the covers every night. <br /><br />More love than your heart can hold <br /><br />Butterfly kisses and Velcro hugs. <br /><br />Endless wonder over rocks, ants, clouds, and warm cookies. <br /><br />A hand to hold, usually covered with jelly or chocolate. <br /><br />A partner for blowing bubbles, flying kites, building sandcastles, and skipping down the sidewalk in the pouring rain. <br /><br />Someone to laugh yourself silly with, no matter what the boss said or how your stocks performed that day. <br /><br />For $160,140, you never have to grow up. <br /><br />You get to finger-paint, carve pumpkins, play hide-and-seek, catch lightning bugs, and never stop believing in Santa Claus. <br /><br />You have an excuse to keep reading the Adventures of Piglet and Pooh, watching Saturday morning cartoons, going to Disney movies, and wishing on stars. <br /><br />You get to frame rainbows, hearts, and flowers under refrigerator magnets and collect spray painted noodle wreaths for Christmas, hand prints set in clay for Mother's Day, and cards with backward letters for Father's Day. <br /><br />For $160,140, there is no greater bang for your buck. <br /><br />You get to be a hero just for retrieving a Frisbee off the garage roof, taking the training wheels off a bike, removing a splinter, filling a wading pool, coaxing a wad of gum out of bangs, and coaching a baseball team that never wins but always gets treated to ice cream regardless. <br /><br />You get a front row seat to history to witness the first step, first word, first bra, first date, and first time behind the wheel. <br /><br />You get to be immortal. <br /><br />You get another branch added to your family tree, and if you're lucky, a long list of limbs in your obituary called grandchildren and great grandchildren. <br /><br />You get an education in psychology, nursing, criminal justice, communications, and human sexuality that no college can match. <br /><br />In the eyes of a child, you rank right up there under God. You have all the power to heal a boo-boo, scare away the monsters under the bed, patch a broken heart, police a slumber party, ground them forever, and love them without limits, so . one day they will, like you, love without counting the cost.. <br /><br />ENJOY YOUR KIDS AND GRANDKIDS! <br /><br />PS from JB: And Great Grandbuddies, too!
 

NYMINUTE

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Re: The "price" of being a parent.

Grandkids, I have 2 girls that OWN me. Never thoght I could get so caught up in them. Nobody told me that when I raised my kids. That rocks JB
 

ED21

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Re: The "price" of being a parent.

Money well spent.<br />Those hugs & giggles are priceless.
 

jtexas

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Re: The "price" of being a parent.

It strikes me that the rewards listed are front-loaded, whereas the costs tend to spike in the later years, what with braces, cheerleading camp, car insurance, ski trips, bail, restitution ... ;) . Of course ending the analysis at 18 omits not just college, but also, for parents of daughters, the wedding :eek: :eek: :eek: .<br /><br />But it just occurred to me that grandchildren could be at least as rewarding, and any further investment is optional.
 

jamesgreen

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Re: The "price" of being a parent.

Yeah but whats the loan vaule on one?<br />Is it enough to buy a new boat?<br /><br />Just kidding they are worth every penny and then some.
 

lundboat

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Re: The "price" of being a parent.

Thanks for that JB. My wife and I just found out we are pregnant with our first! Very exciting and very terrifying. Looking forward to teaching him/her how to fish the puget sound.
 

wajajaja

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Re: The "price" of being a parent.

thanks jb, just sent my two back to college, i needed the reminder. <br /> one just totally love kids and the other just wants money , i'll c&p that to both of em. <br /><br />lundboat, start buying diapers, lots of em.
 
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