She should have had an abortion or killed the kid after birth

Tinkerer

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This is NOT posted to start a debate on abortion or caesarians versus natural birth or any other contentious related issues.<br /><br />It's posted to show how inconsistent, stupid and often useless child protection authorities have become. <br /><br />I accept that child protection officers have a difficult job to do, but they seem to do it pretty poorly a lot more often and with far worse consequences compared with lots of other occupations who have equally important decisions to make in equally fluid circumstances with equally equivocal information and an equal lack of support from their superiors or bureaucracies. Look at what they're paid and how long most people stay in the job and it ain't hard to fathom why decisions which turn out to be bad are made by people who lack the training and experience for the difficult job they have to do.<br /><br />Mandelaine Dagan made an informed choice not to have a caesarian birth contrary to medical advice. We all do that sort of thing by refusing to give up smoking or lose weight or just refusing medication. Turns out the natural birth went fine and mother and baby are doing well. <br /><br />The doctors were wrong and mum was right<br /><br />Doctor's opinions are fine and they do their best, but they're not infallible. My father died last week of pneumonia as the final complication in a worn out old body, fourteen years after we were told he had 3 to 6 months to live because of Alzheimer's or dementia (they weren't sure what it was), and a few other doctor's predictions of certain death within months along the way.<br /><br />The mother in this story gets chased by the welfare people, while she's in labour, purely because she misses a pre-birth doctor's appointment.<br /><br />When did it become compulsory to attend an appointment in a free market and a free society?<br /><br />They're all so concerned for the baby. <br /><br />I wonder what the hospital's policy is on sending out the welfare police to mothers who don't turn up to pre-abortion appointments?<br /><br />If it's the mother's choice about abortions how come it's not her choice about birth? After all, it's not just about the baby. She's the one who has to go through the birth or operation. Seems like she might be entitled to make a decision.<br /><br />Anyway, what were they going to do if she maintained her position? Carry out a caesar against her will? Yeah, right, like that wouldn't result in huge damages that the mother would rightly be awarded for a terrible surgical assault by the hospital and its staff.<br /><br />If the welfare people turned up at my door when my wife had made an informed decision that she was going to have a natural birth, or for that matter an abortion, I'd be tempted to show them what childbirth, or an abortion, feels like. In reverse.<br /><br />Meanwhile child welfare departments regularly fail to act on reports that Blind Freddie would know tell you that the kid was at serious risk. We usually find out the details during the coroner's inquest on some poor kid who's had the sh*t knocked out of him or her for most of their miserable, short little lives before they're finally beaten to death. They've often been "supervised" by child welfare for ages, with numerous reports from concerned family and neighbours leading to precisely nothing while the poor little bugger has untreated fractures and untreated ruptured organs and other misery like being locked in dark cupboards in their own filth for days on end.<br /><br />When the child bashers don't turn up for appointments or go missing, what do you think child welfare does?<br /><br />Right.<br /><br />Sweet FA.<br /><br />So, if you're a mother who makes an informed decision not to have a caesarian contrary to advice you're a prime target for child welfare. But if you decide to have it aborted or meekly have the kid by casearian and later belt the living bejesus out of him or her for years you'll probably be left largely alone by child welfare. <br /><br />Makes sense.<br /><br />Like most other government actions and policies.<br /><br /> http://www.abc.net.au/pm/content/2005/s1295480.htm <br /><br />PM - Legal implications emerge for Qld women who ignore doctors' advice <br /><br />[This is the print version of story http://www.abc.net.au/pm/content/2005/s1295480.htm] <br /><br /><br />PM - Thursday, 3 February , 2005 18:30:00<br />Reporter: Ian Townsend<br />ELEANOR HALL: As some federal politicians look at limiting the right to abortion in Australia, in one state lawmakers are already restricting the rights of mothers-to-be to have their babies at home, saying this can amount to child abuse.<br /><br />Queensland's new child safety laws appear to have been extended to the womb, with legal implications for pregnant women who ignore their doctor's advice.<br /><br />In one case, child safety officers were sent to the home of a mother who'd been rejecting a doctor's advice to have a caesarean section, as Ian Townsend reports from Brisbane.<br /><br />IAN TOWNSEND: When Mandelaine Dagan told staff at the Brisbane Royal Women's Hospital that she wanted a natural birth, she was told, initially, no. She was advised that because she'd had two caesarean sections in the past, there were increased risks to the baby this time. Then she was told that if she insisted on a natural birth, she'd have to accept certain interventions.<br /><br />She decided to change hospitals.<br /><br />So when she missed an antenatal appointment at the Royal Women's hospital, the Queensland Child Safety Department was notified. Two child safety officers then turned up at Mandelaine Dagan's door, while she was in labour and waiting to go to another hospital.<br /><br />Under Queensland's Child Safety Legislation Amendment Act of 2004, it seems child safety officers can respond if there's concern for an unborn child.<br /><br />Queensland's Child Safety Minister is Mike Reynolds.<br /><br />MIKE REYNOLDS: Well, they were of the medical opinion that the mother was placing the child at great risk by not having a caesarean birth. Now, we are duty-bound, under our legislation which actually indicates that we need to act in a situation where we believe that the unborn child – when the child is born – is going to be placed at great risk.<br /><br />IAN TOWNSEND: This notion that the mother who refuses to have a caesarean could be breaking the law has outraged a number of groups, especially a group which lobbies for birthing mothers called The Maternity Coalition.<br /><br />Justine Caines is the National President.<br /><br />JUSTINE CAINES: There's a bit of scare-mongering, and very serious power plays going on here with women's bodies.<br /><br />IAN TOWNSEND: Do you think the law's gone too far now?<br /><br />JUSTINE CAINES: Absolutely too far. I mean, women don't have child protection workers coming to their door saying that they can't have a caesarean section. This is, you know, very, very serious, and if we want to look at real statistics we have to open it right up and look at safety across the board and not just pick what seems to be part of a new agenda.<br /><br />IAN TOWNSEND: The baby in this case was deemed to be at greater risk of harm because of a recent study that showed that electing to have a vaginal delivery after a caesarean section was a more dangerous choice for the baby. <br /><br />But in this case, Queensland's AMA President, Dr David Molloy, says it appears it was the fact that the mother had missed the hospital appointment that sparked the intervention by the child welfare officers.<br /><br />DAVID MOLLOY: I don't think there was either the intention of restricting choice, providing the patient was acting in a way that was safe for her and her baby.<br /><br />Where we're trying to take modern obstetrics is from let's see what we can get away with and hope we can get away with something to, you know, helping mothers make evidence-based choices for themselves and their children.<br /><br />IAN TOWNSEND: But helping mothers make a choice and then, or legislating for a choice are two different things, aren't they?<br /><br />DAVID MOLLOY: Exactly. And I don't think there's any evidence here that that legislation is being made to restrict mothers' choices. Really, there's just legislation to, you know, there can be interference by the state for an at-risk child after a delivery, but the need for that can be flagged during a pregnancy because the patient, you know, may be, for example, a heavy substance abuser or have a history of harming several other children.<br /><br />IAN TOWNSEND: Well, if we are going to legislate, and to protect the welfare of the baby, where do we stop? Should we make it illegal for pregnant women to smoke, for instance?<br /><br />DAVID MOLLOY: Well, exactly. I mean, that's the real problem with this, is that when you start to interfere with the rights of the mother, where do you stop, and where do you ascribe the legal rights to the foetus, then you do open an absolute Pandora's Box – can children sue their mothers later on in life for a bad choice about the mode of delivery, or sue them for smoking during a pregnancy? You know, describing the foetus' rights would of course have profound effects on the abortion debate, which is, you know, very topical at the moment.<br /><br />So, I think these are very important legal and social issues, and they're certainly ones that doctors are very happy to see debated in the community, because we actually don't want to be put in the position where we are bullying mothers, we want to educate and help pregnant women, not tell them what they must have.<br /><br />ELEANOR HALL: Dr David Molloy, President of the Queensland branch of the AMA, speaking to Ian Townsend in Brisbane.<br /><br />And in case you're wondering, the pregnant woman in this story gave birth naturally to a healthy baby girl after a seven-hour labour.
 

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Re: She should have had an abortion or killed the kid after birth

I think that if the baby or mother are not at risk of death, or if the baby is in the right position for birth, and not in any danger, then it's the mom's call what she wants to do.<br /><br />I don't like the idea of a mom/girl getting pregnant on their own, and then deciding that she don't want it and abort it, but it's still her call.<br /><br />The abortion deal is a slippery slope for sure and I don't want to start any heated debate over it. Just my .02 worth.
 

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That law sounds like pure stupidity.<br /><br />You cant save EVERYONE, and that law seems to try to do that.<br /><br />Ken
 

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I am not trying to start a debate on the medical or moral issues here, but years ago almost losed my wife to a Drs. stupidity and feel thats what caused this problem, she didn't agree with his ideas so he called the police, thats called the God Syndrome, but when they make a mistake or things go bad they want you to remember that they only have a lisence to practices and thats exactly what they do is practice on you and me. Sorry for being so bitter, Bob
 

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Re: She should have had an abortion or killed the kid after birth

I agree with Ken, we can't save everyone.
 

Tinkerer

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Re: She should have had an abortion or killed the kid after birth

Originally posted by laddiesservice:<br /> I am not trying to start a debate on the medical or moral issues here, but years ago almost losed my wife to a Drs. stupidity and feel thats what caused this problem, she didn't agree with his ideas so he called the police, thats called the God Syndrome, but when they make a mistake or things go bad they want you to remember that they only have a lisence to practices and thats exactly what they do is practice on you and me. Sorry for being so bitter, Bob
As a doctor's son, who knows other doctors' kids, I can say this old joke ain't far off.<br /><br /><br />Chow line in heaven.<br /><br />Bloke pushes to the front of the queue and gets served first.<br /><br />Muttering in queue about the queue jumper.<br /><br />A voice says: "That's only God. He thinks he's a doctor.".
 

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Re: She should have had an abortion or killed the kid after birth

Tinkerer, <br />Not to belittle your point about taking better care of the children we have, isn't this a case of media sensationalization of a non-event? <br /><br />* Hospital One (not any law enforcement agency)insisted she have a caesarean. <br />* Patient switches to Hospital Two, as is her prerogative.<br />* Hospital Two calls Child Welfare after missed appointment. Apparently an overreaction on someone's part at the hospital.<br />* Child Welfare will respond when a hospital calls. Sounds like good policy to me.<br />* Patient successfully completes a natural childbirth.<br /><br />Was she forced into a caesarean? No. <br /><br />The reporter says, "Queensland's new child safety laws appear to have been extended to the womb...." <br /><br />But yet that is exactly what did not happen!
 

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Re: She should have had an abortion or killed the kid after birth

So we want our cake, and we would like to eat it, too?<br /><br />It's no secret that this board is largely pro-life. To me, this seems very hypocritical.<br /><br />The basis for our abortion laws is; until the child is actually born, a woman has the right to her own body. This point of view hits a sore nerve with many people. According to the pro-life crowd, even though the child is yet unborn, it is still murder, and thus a woman does NOT have the right to her own body when it affects her child.<br /><br />Now, we come across a story like this. A woman is making choices that could affect the health and life of her unborn child, and CPS gets involved, and apparently it is outrageous. The government and medical profession do not have the right to dictate a womans actions with regards to her own body, if those actions may affect the child's health.<br /><br />So which is it? On topics of abortion, the mother should NOT have the right to her own body, but when discussing caesarean vs. natural childbirth, a woman SHOULD have that right to make those decisions.
 

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Wil that's just it.<br />When does the child become a person?<br />After it's born or when it's concieved.<br />How many weeks old does it have to be to be considered a human life?<br /><br />That's why I said it's a slippery slope.
 

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To be honest SBN, I don't have a good answer.<br /><br />For some reason, people are more horrified or outraged at "partial-birth abortions" than first-trimester abortions. Why? Because it resembles a human being, and therefore is murder? But somehow, because a little embryo does not resemble a human being, it's acceptable? <br /><br />I'm not out to define when life begins. But to me, it seems absurd to point to some arbitrary point and say "right there, that's when life begins!" Is it when the brain begins developing? When the heart starts beating? At six weeks or nine? When little fingers and toes develop, and it resembles a human being? That's a little ambiguous, don't you think?<br /><br />You'll never get a clear consensus anywhere in the middle ground, there's always arguements on either side. So it seems to me that you are left with only two choices when life begins; at conception, or at birth.
 

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When do you become a "person"? I don't see how you can be your own separate entity until you're born, but I could accept "viable," maybe even "viable only with heroic life-saving measures," but not "viable but likely only for a couple days or a life-time vegatable." That's just my perspective.<br /><br />When do you become "life" which, if terminated amounts to "killing"? That's the tough question. Are you really a separate "life" or "soul" inside the womb? This is definately a moral question, but should it also be a legal question? Society has made it a political question, but should it really be one?<br /><br />My own belief is that abortion is a horrible tragic thing which should be eradicated by the voluntary elimination of unwanted pregnancy. Of course that's a "perfect-world" scenario. I can't imagine the scenario in which I would either advise or directly fund an abortion. <br /><br />I don't feel good about denying reproductive choice, yet I don't think abortion should be legal. But as long as it is legal, it should be available to the indigent same as any other medical procedure. I hate to think we are imposing our morality on poor people just because we can; sort of makes me feel like a bully. <br /><br />(just my 2¢)
 

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Until that baby is born, it is a part of HER body. It is none of ANYONE's business what she does with her body...period. Doctors are there to give ADVICE and COUNCIL, not force you to do one thing or another (not that they did in this case). And until it's 18, it's HER child to raise as she see's fit (within reason anyway)..spankings and all...not as you or I see fit. If she had wanted to go home and give birth in her bathtub, by herself...that's her decision and not mine, not yours, and not the decision of any government entity. This is not "society's" child, it is her child and she (as well as all other parents) should be in charge of her own children/life.<br /><br />I think people should just mind their own damn business and let people do what they choose with THEIR OWN bodies and THEIR OWN private lives, whether you think it's right or wrong. This goes for abortion, gay rights, putting a new window in your house without a permit, etc, etc, etc.<br /><br />Plain and simple: it is her body, her baby, her choice and no one else's business. <br /><br />Keep letting (mostly forcing) the government to pass laws dictating how you take care of your own body, wear your clothes and raise your kids and that's exactly what you'll have-socialist dictatorship. What you will not have is any say in the matter...which is the path we're going down.<br /><br />The moral of the story....stop government from meddling in our personal lives-don't perpetuate it!<br /><br />I for one am not, was not and will never be society's child....I am the child of my parents and will take the values I learned from THEM to the grave. <br /><br />(the topic of the government or anyone else's intervention into our personal lives really bugs me by the way)<br /><br />Thank you and have a nice day! :)
 
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