Re: recharging 2 battery system
You have a challenge, and we need a little more info to help much.
Since you have a Tiller motor, it is magneto-ignition, and hence does not have a 12v "ignition" wire to trigger the solenoid, so no way to do what you ask. In that case, you need an ACR (such as from Blue Sea Systems) to auto-combine banks without a trigger wire. The rectifier output will be "hot" whenever the battery is connected to the battery, so that won't work... the stinger would constantly be energized, which has the same effect as having a single battery bank, except that the stinger relay coil will be using some power all the time, draining the batteries even when the motor is off.
If you had a Remote model, there is 12v switched power available at the key switch inside the RC box, which is hot whenever the switch is turned to "on" or "start".
Even so... the 8 hp 2-stroke motors only make about 5 amps on a good day at WOT, and make almost nothing at idle. The NSF8A3 4-stroke makes about 6 amps at WOT, and makes a few amps at mid-range speeds. So, the amount of charging that you would get from the outboard is minimal. These charging systems are essentially intended to replenish what power was used to start the motor, and not much more.
A simpler system for outboard-powered sailboats is to run a single battery bank (or set the battery switch to "both" when running the OB). In the case of a single bank (which could be 2 paralleled batteries), since the OB uses very little power to crank, you should be OK unless you really run the battery nearly dead with the cabin lights, etc... If you do, you can pull-start the OB.