SS MAYFLOAT
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A friend that I have known for over 20 years is having problems with his ex over their child. The child is 5, mother in her late 30's, and he is 43. This is his only child and it is her 2nd. Her first is now 22, doesn't work, gets government aid because she can't work due to panic attacks from being around people. Her mother was more of friend instead of a mother and has not taught her the neccessities of life.<br /><br />Now my friend does not want his child to turn out like his ex's first born. When the child is in his custody during visitation, she calls the child between 5 and 10 times a day. Plus their are other details that I don't want to disclose.<br /><br />His ex gets extra money for daycare only if she works. She works just enough to keep the money flowing, but quits within a month or two. She has student loans with not intentions of paying back. She looks for any free government aid to help support her. <br /><br />My main question is that I wish to write a letter to the Judge over at the Juvenille Justice Center concerning my friends case. I just would like the judge to know more than the 15 minuets the social worker takes to evaluate this case. <br /><br />Would it be wrong for me to write a letter to the Judge or not?<br /><br />Thanks for any input. My friend is about to lose his house due to the amount of support he has to pay because his ex refuses to support herself. He wants to pay support for his daughter, but it is not fair when his support supports his ex as well. She lives off of what she gets from him.