Dear Abby: <br /><br />My husband is a liar and a cheat. He has cheated on me from the beginning, and when I confront him, he denies everything. What's worse, <br />everyone knows he cheats on me. It is so humiliating. Also since he lost his job two years ago he hasn't even looked for a new one. All he does is buy cigars and cruise around and bull**** with his pals, while I have to work to pay the bills. Since our daughter went away to <br />college he doesn't even pretend to like me and hints that I am a lesbian. <br />What should I do? <br /><br />Signed, Clueless <br /><br />Dear Clueless: <br /><br />Grow up and dump him. For Pete's sake, you don't need him anymore -- <br />you're a United States Senator from New York now.