Not only are you "miles" from an OMC dealer but you're also YEARS. [OMC doesn't exist any more if you didn't know]
It would be helpful if you indicate the model number of the engine/drive combo.
in 1990 the 4.3L used points and in 1991 it used an electronic ignition..........with an Electronic Shift Assist (ESA) system
Your friend could have either year in his "1991" boat.
If it dies like "you hit a kill switch", it's frequently an ESA problem....... either electrical or mechanical with the lower shift cable binding/maladjusted.
Normal troubleshooting techniques apply here.
Have a look at
OMC Cobra Sterndrive Tech Info AND ,
The following thread might help as a start
http://forums.iboats.com/omc-i-o-in...have-technical-information-diyers-468655.html
If you want to work on it, you'll need an OEM service manual too.
Cheers,
Rick