Re: Boarding the boat from the bow
This is the best suggestion, to go to a good spot to board, and it gives you, the captain, time to get situated without being crowded, and focus on your boat prep. Making it a rule with no exceptions is the only way to make this work, though. As a wife that gets dropped at the concrete launch pier to go get the trailer, I can tell you my husband's desire to show prowess in just how quickly he can approach this immovable object and back away just as I have taken the leap, my boat bears a rather nasty nose scar clear down into the glass. I have started picking him up at this pier stern-first because I hate to see the dirty shoe marks left on my white vinyl (open bow). Stern first on a ski boat is easy enough to do though. I also like the suggestion of the rubber skin for your bow. That makes good sense too. Wish I'd had some. Who cares what you look like--it's about family fun, right? And losing the dog or the kid to the water is not the way to get started. esp since one foot on the bow and one on the dock will push the boat away, and uneasy boarders are prone to doing this.
Here is some more good advice, borrowed from a pilot, no matter what is going on in the cockpit, fly the plane, fly the plane, fly the plane. It goes for piloting a boat as well. Ciao!