Well, I suppose you regulars and experienced guys are tired of my story, but I'm back to happy again!
I went back and rented the pivot puller (the one I could not get to set properly because of not having enough clearance behind the bearing. I spent about an hour twisting and turning the bearing and finally got it to seat correctly. Then, two whacks with the hammer puller and out it came!
For those less experienced (like me) doing it for the first, find the right (or most right) tool.
I first used the pilot bearing puller with the slide hammer. Whack on it for a couple of hours and no movement.
Then used a Rear Axle bearing remover, size 1.25 inch. This in the one that has a pivot head. It was a pig to get seated. But once it was, two whacks later and it was out.
I was going to do the bellows this time around but I think (because I don't want to start it and find a stumbling block) I'll install the new bearing and put it back together and hope the summer doesn't do it to much trouble.
Again, thank your for everyone's input.