Re: 4-Round wiring diagram?
Use a test light on your buddies truck to see which terminals are which. Attach a four-flat to the four-round plug. Another way is to attach four wires to the four-round. Crimp a female bullet connector to each wire except the ground. Crimp a male to that wire. Do the same for the wires on the four flat using male bullets and a female for the ground. You can now connect any trailer, regardless of how screwed up the wiring is, to the four round by simply rearranging the bullets. I do the same with a pair of four flats. People do some really creative wiring so this arrangement allows towing trailers with non-standard wiring.