I had to replace that gasket on my inline 6 3 times. Installing it dry, without sealer, it took longer before the leak reoccurred. It turned out the cover had warped and since there are no fasteners close to the plugs to clamp hold it tight that's where it leaked. Mercury provided me a new cover N/C but that was 30 yrs ago. New covers for you engine are probably pretty rare. You could try without the gasket using a good RVT rated for High temp, it will be messy and a real pain if you need to remove the cover at a later date. If you try the sealer method, let the sealer cure a bit before final tightening of the bolts
How hard it is to rebuild carbs depends on your mechanical ability and experience. Fortunately these carbs are very basic, but have plugs that need to be removed to access areas that need cleaning. The hardest part of the whole operation is doing the link-n-sync