SS MAYFLOAT
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Last weekend has made for a saddened holiday for my family.<br /><br />Last Friday night my son lied to me where he was going. He went to a party where drugs and alcohol were available to him and his other 15 to 18 year old buds. Saturday afternoon he called and wanted a ride home. During the converstation I could tell in is voice that it didn't sound like my son.<br />Since he is always saying he can take care of himself, so I told him that he needs to find his own way home. The week before, he purposely tore the transmission out of his car by doing neutral drops. (second car now that he has tore up).<br /><br />He came home and was very uncontrollably mad because he said he walked home. Later we found out that he stole money and took a taxi.<br /><br />He then started calling me names and doing his best to provoke me into fighting him. I never in my life have been degraded as the way he did that night. After about 3 hours trying to reason with him, I tried to talk to him to calm him down. This was the first time ever he wouldn't calm down. No matter what I would say, it just would make him even more mad at me. He picked up a machetti and went through the motions of cutting his right hand off with it, but I inteviened and stopped him. He then said he would put a bullet through his head later on.(All guns in my house have breech cables and trigger locks) So I closed his door, and went out and called 911.<br /><br />After he found out that I called the police, he started threatening to beat and kill me. His skin tone, voice, and actions told me he had to be on something. This is the only time I have ever been sacared of my son. I kept my cool and did not attempt to fight him. I seen one car pull into the drive and he looked out the window then seen me heading out into the garage. I wasn't going to stick around if he was going to hurt me. <br /><br />After the police showed up, he ran into the basement and out the back door. The police chased him down and only got him to stop at gun point.<br /><br />They took him into the shrriffs dept and charged him with domestic violence and then transported him to the physic ward at the local hospital. He was to be held for a 3 day observation. After the doctor seen him on the second day, the doc determined this young man was way to angry to go home. So he now has been admitted for 5 more days.<br /><br />Even still while at the hospital, his threats to me still is going on. The courts are doing what they can to ensure that he will go straight from the hospital to a detention center. He has been in and out of trouble frequently and always has stated that he would never go there.<br /><br />I'm just bummed out in a major way. I hate turning my back on him, but he has to come to his senses and realize you can't treat people the way he does. All his friends that are good kids have called and told us all kinds of bad things about him and why they quit having him around. I figure it is because unknowing to me that he was hanging with the wrong crowd.<br /><br />Blood tests showed he had some major anit-depressants in his system. He also had been drinking beer on top of them to.<br /><br />I've been told by friends that I have done the right thing, but I just don't know. Tough Love as they call it is no doubt tough.<br /><br />So he will be spending Christmas in the hospital. He still doesn't want to see me and I don't plan on seeing him until he is wanting to see me. The doctor has been thinking my son is Bipolar.<br /><br />All I can do is pray for him and the rest of my grief stricken family.<br /><br />I do wish everyone here at the iboats family to have a Merry Christmas. I know my feelings will be distracted from the circumstances by my grandchildren visiting Christmas day. They always bring smiles and happiness to me.<br /><br />I feel I shouldn't have posted this, but some of you have been very helpful to me in the past. The support is greatly appreaciated. My family and I need it during this holiday season. Thanks to all...